I can almost guarantee that you are an very goodlooking man with a way above average body who describes himself as "average looking" based on comparisons you make of yourself to those you consider "out of your league" and because of your desire to appear to be oblivious about how you are seen by others, and how much…

Also, I learned many new things about relationships from reading all the comments left by other readers:

"Whenever people like Heisley or Savage talk about their kickass relationship arrangement, the implication is always clear: I'm living the life you wish you could live. Not only do they have a more fulfilling sex life than you, but they also have a more trusting relationship with their partner because of it. "