The truly telling part for me is that the guys you mentioned - the ones who think anyone who has “hit” puberty is fair game - never clarify that they only like young people who are at the beginning of the process of puberty. They go after young people who look/act more like children than adults. They are pedophiles,…

Are you ignorant about gender, or are you just not funny?

“Women” is good enough, but thanks.

“Women” is not too formal. “Ladies” would be too formal.

Do you understand that your statements are correct, only if by “dating” you mean “finding a man who is willing to stick his dick in one of her orifices?” Because I have been a thin woman for 43 years, and while I never struggled to find a man who is willing to stick his dick in one of my orifices, that is not the…

Here’s the problem with perspective that “if a woman is 30 lbs overweight, she can lose those 30 lbs and immediately expand her dating pool” and characterizing losing 30 pounds as a simple piece of advice. There is nothing simple about losing 30 pounds. I don’t know your weight or if you’ve ever tried to lose 30…

It sucks. You never know if people are being nice to you because they like who you are as a person, or because they just like the way you look. You know how you felt when you were 21 and going out to bars? And all the drunk men were like, “Yur sho pretty... yur the pretties gurl here *hic*” and you were like, “Get…

Say what? Mariah talked about taking antidepressants in what interview, ever? Google reveals no such interview.

Can we all please give it up for those six male backup dancers? They could have bailed when she didn’t sing, or when she walked off, but instead, they were true professionals, dancing their asses off no matter what da fuq happened. Props, gentlemen, props. #theshowmustgoon

A) I didn’t say watching “barely legal” porn reinforces predatory behavior. I just wanted to read whatever you were basing your assertion on, if it was based on research.

Studies show? Which studies?

You said that any drug treatment that doesn’t treat the mental illness part of it is basically worthless, but I don’t think that’s necessarily true. A person can go to a 30 day rehab program, get sober and then do outpatient treatment for any kind of trauma, other mental illnesses, relationship problems, financial…

I don’t know if this information will be of interest to you, and if it’s not, I hope I don’t offend you in any way. I was just thinking that you might really dig being with a guy who is submissive. Mr. Strawberry Jones is submissive, and therefore, his kink is serving/worshipping me. He is not into doing degrading or…

If you have any evidence that watching actors have sex while pretending to be too young to consent, helps people “let go” of predatory behavior, I’d be interested in reading it.

One of the reasons this issue is confusing is that you’re using the wrong terminology. There’s no such thing as child prostitution. Prostitution only occurs where a person can consent, and children can’t consent. Instead, every child under the age of consent who is involved in intercourse is a victim of sex…

Right back atcha! Strength and hope, to you. <3

Thank you! Although I didn’t do it alone, I needed 3 days of detox, and 9 days in the inpatient psych unit, and meds, and AA and therapy. But nonetheless, I am proud of myself.

A friend who is an Army Ranger told me that some of the men he served with act like that. They sit around for hours saying the most vile, disrespectful things about women, but if you say one word about their mother, sister, wife or daughter they will beat the shit out of you. What in the fucking hell.

I’ve been sober for seven years. Does the new term seem less shameful to you - “substance use disorder?” Is it easier for you to say “I have a substance use disorder” than it is to say “I am an alcoholic?”

Think of it less as a chore, and more as self-care.