Darlin, I am 41 and in a committed relationship for three years. My parents met and became friends through a campus organization of people with common interests, and then when they knew each other as people, started to date. My sister met her future husband in med school, which contains people with common interests.…

Just read upthread that you're only saying this shit because you wanted to see what would happen if you came in here and said "not all men." You officially suck at life. What would your art professors say if they knew what a tool you are? And what would all of those luscious ladies who drool over your drawings on…

I have been drunk while on the internet hundreds of time, and never, NEVER have I stumbled across child porn.

Do you have any idea what percentage of the US is mentally ill? Why is it so hard to think that some mentally unhinged men are out to get her? You might want to take an Abnormal Psychology class and start believing women when they say fucked up shit is happening to them.

Honey, my mother is married to a PhD in Physics, so not even on your best night

Because people are barbarians, that's why. Romans had the Coliseum, and Americans have football stadiums.

I think when something this fucked up happens, it's because of multiple fuckups. Plenty of blame to go around. My sister is an ER doc in Pittsburgh, and ER docs are trained to be experts at diagnosing everything, common and unusual. When there is an outbreak anywhere in the world, doctors and nurses ought to be on…

Stick with drawing, because thinking is not your strong suit.

No, the default position is that any man could be the guy who is going to follow me where I'm going and rape/stab/mug me, and when that happens, everyone, including the police, will blame me for talking to him. "Why were you talking to him? Dozens of people saw you talking to him and said he seemed like a nice guy. …

Yes. You're making it perfectly clear that you enjoy conversations with strangers, and dozens of women here are telling you they do not enjoy conversations with strangers. In fact, conversations with strangers remind them of the countless times they have been talked to by strangers, then hit on, then screamed at…

The only way it's not always an option is if a guy is so unlikeable, his friends and family don't want to invite him anywhere their female friends will be. meetup.com Group activities around the world. Check it out, if there's no groups in your area, you can start one and be the boss that started something cool in…

No. You never "gotta" say hi to strangers. Strangers don't want you to say hi, bro. We fucking hate it. If a man's social network is not that extensive maybe it's because he's unlikeable because he insists on talking to strangers when strangers are telling him they don't like that.

1. How are we supposed to know the difference between a man who is asking what book I'm reading , and when he gets that info, will go away, and a man who will ask what book I'm reading and then hit on me?

Right? He's so stupid.

Women of all kinds, not just shy one, not just feminists, don't want strange men to hit on them because of the countless stories women have of turning a stranger down and then getting screamed at, swore at, called a dyke, called a bitch, etc etc etc. A single person has a billion people they can meet a woman though. …

Yes! It's like, they'll try to use any word you utter as an opening for more talking and stupid shit.

This was my go-to response! If I didn't like what some creep was creepily saying to me, and this happened to me mostly at work, I would start loudly repeating what he was saying. "<Person's Name> I DON'T WANT YOU TO TELL ME HOW SEXY YOU THINK I AM. WHISPERING TO ME HOW GOOD I SMELL IS NOT APPROPRIATE AT WORK. THIS…

"Fainting at the crotch..." baahaaahaaaaaa!

Always with the lying with these guys. Just lie your fucking face off to women. And play some games. Chicks love that.