God, that's horrible. Is he at least clean and sober now?

Please God, in the name of all that is sane and holy, let this story win.

And if someone would be so kind as to pull me up out of the greys, I would be so, so grateful. :)

GOT DAMN

I think the reason so many men think that women make false allegations of rape all the time is because so many men make false allegations of all kinds of crimes, all the time.

You've been accused of being a troll hundreds of times, right? Do you really believe that all repeat victims of that accusation are simply unlucky?

Citation?

Nah, if it were a parody, the writer would have described "himself" as much less attractive. To make the point that these guys who are just dying to meet ladies are having trouble meeting ladies because they're physically unattractive in addition to being unattractive personality-wise.

Please post this to your Facebook account. Other people need to know.

This made me laugh, cry, and hurl at the same time.

Overeducated in self absorption and undereducated in Women's Studies.

Can I get this on a scarf that matches my eyes?

If your SO likes the idea of waking you up with oral sex, s/he should run it by you BEFORE s/he does it. If you say, "Yes, I want you to wake me up like that anytime you want" then cool, s/he can do it any morning and it's not rape. Be sure to establish a safeword, so that if s/he does it one morning and you want…

Your fetish is really common, my boyfriend is submissive and loves for me to be in complete control and use him like a sex object. His kink doesn't involve him saying no and I keep going, so he knows he can always say no or stop if he wants to withdraw consent. The consent part is not a problem as long as you have a…

Exactly, I totally agree. Consent IS sexy, when you're not fucking some idiot.

Exactly. And this stuff has never been proven to reduce a woman's risk of being raped. I don't believe it does. So fuck these guys.

Can you offer one shred of proof that any of this theory - that doing any or all of these things actually results in a smaller chance of being raped?

You put it perfectly. Simultaneously telling women to trust strangers and not trust strangers is such horseshit, I can't even believe it.

Fuck that guy. That rapist picked you because he's a rapist, period, full stop.

I am so sorry that happened to you. You didn't do anything wrong, obviously. The problem was him. <3

The problem with "taking steps to protect yourself" is that if those steps work, the rapist just rapes some other woman, WHICH IS NOT A SOLUTION TO THE PROBLEM. And if those steps don't work, these "crime prevention" douchebags start telling women "act like you're a soldier in a warzone" which is goddamn ridiculous. …