A long time ago, I dated a trans woman. She was righteous. Super smart and quite perceptive. She had a lot to say about peoples’ notions of gender. Among other things, I learned from her that you are never supposed to ask someone’s gender. But it got me thinking. What do we perceive as male and what do we perceive as…

The fact that I just mumbled “nigga please” to that photo in front of my white step-child indicates that I concur. He is the WOOOORSSST.

Still a better love story than Twilight.

Jim Bob is asking Jesus for advice right now, and Jesus is all

Mindy Kaling’s book was bad.

THAT LANA PICTURE. KAYNE. I AM DEAD.

Dammit, don’t you hate it when you turn down Molestation Avenue when you really meant to hang a left on Not Being a Fucking Monster Lane? Goddamn MapQuest, I tell you what...

Yup! I remember when Elizabeth Smart was rescued, she said years later she never escaped when she could’ve because she had been raped repeatedly, and she thought her family wouldn’t love her anymore because she wasn’t a virgin. Typical family teaching abstinence and ~waiting for marriage.

Purity culture is a part of rape culture.

Purity culture is a part of rape culture. I'm not shocked by this at all.

OK Julia Roberts.

Your hubby is a goddamn keeper, real talk.

<3 shut up i'm not crying, you're crying!!! i love all the people at that shop so much! and your hubby! and you!!!!!!

I hope someone gave out fifty shades of shite to that dressmaker.

Dude, marry that wonderful man. AGAIN.

I'm 31, with a master's degree, my husband is finishing up his PhD, we have a child, and we live in a 2 bedroom apartment. The American dream is dead.

Rosebud Salve is the best lip balm. I have extremely acne prone skin and can't wear a lot of lip gloss/balm because it breaks me out around my mouth, which is horrible. Obviously. I've been wearing this for years and it never breaks me out. It has just a hint of color, but looks pretty natural. It has a bit of…

Rosebud Salve is the best lip balm. I have extremely acne prone skin and can't wear a lot of lip gloss/balm because…

SO DAMN SEXY. My dream man since I was, like, 11. Come to me, Pierce.

This was horrible. I mean these fans were having a good time minding their own business, when all of a sudden a bunch of strangers barge in invading their space, trying to force their beliefs on them, calling them names and leaving the fans feeling totally denigrated and completely attacked.... wait...