Me too! At first I just thought maybe it was just me not adapting well, feeling better that you and others are angry too.

The tone of the whole site seems to have changed lately (maybe it has been something gradual that the older members noticed?), but I suddenly went from loving this site to really disliking it. To be…

How long does it take to come out of the gray? I tried to find out but I think the FAQ I found was old.
I think there needs to be a better system for getting active, non-troll commentors our of the gray, or at least a clear process of becoming a non-gray user.
I also agree that some here are rather snarky when it comes…

Wrote a post about this on Crosstalk:

The Gawker/Nick Denton empire is about getting $. This is only accomplished by getting clicks. A headline that expresses concern about a woman's emotional and personal decline, with a suggestion as to how she might improve—well, most folks won't give a shit enough to read it.

replying to promote.

A funny (and not ha-ha) thing just happened. I was in the process of responding to a previous comment, which I have included below, when I saw that it had disappeared. The comment, while critical of this post, and indeed of other similar posts, made what I believe to be a valid point. I was in the process of saying…

Eh, I've done worse with worse. If I were single and cruising at a party, absolutely.

Same here! It's gotten to the point where any time any animal comes on screen I can be heard to mutter, "Oh man. Things don't look good for that (insert animal here)". Sad that it always comes as a pleasant surprise when they live. (I gritted my teeth through The Artist, even though it's ostensibly a comedy).

You guys sound awesomesweets.

This. She's crazy as hell but I love her music. It's so damn catchy.

Yeah, I had much different ideas about sex at 18 then I do now. Shaving 1 partner would have been a big deal back then. Now? Puh-lease...I just enjoy myself.

Not wanting to add another notch to my belt caused me to stay with and/or go back to far too many douchebags in my younger years, because I would get horny and figure getting it from someone I'd already hooked up with who was a jerk was better than adding one more dreaded number to my ever-growing tally. Then one…

They are still teenagers, with everything that implies. Considering all the slut-shaming that goes on in our culture, is it any wonder that a young woman would lie about her number of sexual partners?

Has no one discussed the fact that the pilot is named "Wolfgang Burnside"?

They won't find it. It's obvious that Obama traveled back in time and had her killed and then cloned her in 1947 to create Hillary Clinton in order to promote the gay agenda and help the UN enslave hard working Americans.

As a gay dude it has always vexed the heck out of me how awful some gay guys can be about women's appearance and body shape. (I mean, I know everyone is capable of being an asshole, regardless of sex, sexuality etc.) I'm not a huge fashion queen myself but even I see the beauty in all body types. Being a slender…

She is pretty damned Fearce.

Have you tried OKCupid at all? I've found that to be a lot better than the terribleawfulnogoodverybad matchmaking service I won a membership to.

Who is this?!

Probably removed some ribs.