I'm with some of the other posters. Did something else happen during the day? This seems extreme. If it is really the case that he looked himself in his room because of a trivial argument like 3 year olds I used to babysit, you need to ignore him. I'm with the aptly named TreatYoSelf: grab a friend and get a…

So true. I was on Gawker CT and someone was complaining about the funeral and I could only think that they'd never seen a black funeral.

I never heard of POF. Just googled it. Very interesting.

I like your style!

I am answering way out of proportion to my actual interest in his career and I could not identify one of his songs by sound if you paid me, but he actually does sold out concerts across the globe and has had #1 records in about a dozen countries (although perhaps not France). He was a rising hip hop star before he…

Assuming your question wasn't really just a hook for your comment on umbrellas: He's a successful musician measured in the terms record companies care about, so not talent or musicianship, but money. His last album debuted at #1 and singles from it have been top of the charts internationally, so the Grammies…

Or maybe she could play Whitney with Lana Del Rey. "I'll show you gangsta!"

I'm afraid to hear the answer, but how much time are you supposed to spend talking about your looks? There's a picture? I'm overweight, so I actually don't spend a lot of time talking about that (plus, can't you see the picture?), but I do spend time talking about a lot of things that are pretty fantastic about me. …

Do we really need to be fair to people who use the term "dodging fatties"? Perhaps you are referring to "dodging liars."

I've had one too and honestly, it's hard to overestimate how invasive it seems. It's sheer cruelty to insist that women get one, particularly if they been assaulted in any way.

That's all true. I was focusing more on the rest which I read as not feeling guilty about not being able to save her Mom, etc. The "move on' comment is totally stupid.

That's all true. I was focusing more on the rest which I read as not feeling guilty about not being able to save her Mom, etc. The "move on' comment is totally stupid.

Well, I have almost nothing good to say about Tyler Perry, but to be fair, giving money to people in the grip of addiction is just feeding the addiction unless they have really had some kind of turnaround.

Its' not about guilt, but about developing antibiotic resistance. I was in your shoes—chronic bacterial sinus infections, major surgeries, et al. Now it takes super powerful (and expensive) antibiotics to get rid of sinus infections and I have all other kinds of complications from having taking antibiotics for so…

So true about seeing a doctor. I found out that my "sinus" headaches were caused by tension.

I'm really sorry for your loss. I hate this move in our culture to medicalize grief or encourage people to just get over it already, but Janet's response may be because of reports that Bobbi's "wallowing" is sending her to the hospital. She seems in a very dangerous place.

I'm really sorry for your loss. I hate this move in our culture to medicalize grief or encourage people to just get over it already, but Janet's response may be because of reports that Bobbi's "wallowing" is sending her to the hospital. She seems in a very dangerous place.

Don't knock it! Some of us would kill for some obligation-sex.

You might want to have a talk with "AllAboutEve" upthread who still thinks it's all about the haters.

You might want to have a talk with "AllAboutEve" upthread who still thinks it's all about the haters.