All of that seems like really, really good advice.

But I have a more, um, rudimentary question:

The mattress — Do I sleep on top of it? Or does it sleep on top of me?

Thanks in advance.

See, I was one of those hold-outs who hated it because I felt that I should hate it for all its manic-pixie-tweeness, but last summer, in a fit of boredom (that's my excuse!), I watched an episode and was sucked in :\ Now, I unabashedly love the show. It's funny and doesn't take itself too seriously, which I kinda…