to assert myself/prove I'm not as foolish as I'm perceived. This probably falls into the "not worth it" category but basically, I have the strong urge to make it clear to someone that I know what they're up to, they didn't get one over on me, and I recognize that the way they treated me is fucked up

It sounds like you want him to acknowledge that the way he treated you was wrong. But in my experience he won't acknowledge that, and whatever response you get will not heal your heart.

I'm going to lay from the other side, though the relationship on my end was completely different. It had to do with a fellow coworker, we'd had a few arguments here and there but they were harmless. We were a small team, so if we thought one's work needed tweeking we spoke up, if we disagreed we spoke up. One day I…

I get where you're coming from. I do. That said, I agree with "everyone else:" better not to. I DO think you should still write out this email but write it as a document for yourself. If you wish, type it all out and post it here! But ultimately, the less contact you have with him, the easier it will be for you to…

If you were a female posting on a male-dominant website in stead of this actualized converse, you would likely be told that you a) must have done something wrong, b) need to quit begging for attention, c) critiqued for omitting pertinent details, d) asked your measurements e) home town, f) height, weight and ethnicity…

Oh friends, my poor doggie is sick. She caught a bizarre fungal infection while I was away and now she is too sick to travel to me. She's an 11 yr old French bulldog and is my very best friend. She has never been sick before in her life and she caught this thing; the vets said it mostly strikes large breed male dogs…

I'm sorry. I don't know if you are a man or a woman, but if you are a man I don't believe you will be forever single. The odds are in your favor.

I am single again. I'm not going to get into a lot of details about it but things between me and my fiance have not been great since July. I'm 34 and single again and afraid i will die alone again. Things haven't been good for a while and i thought things could get better but they weren't and i see that now. Back to…

I'm trying to decide the same thing at the moment. My ex phoned a few weeks to tell my that he'd been someone else for the entirety of our two year relationship, and then dropped off the face of the planet. I think ultimately I need the chance to have my say, tell him he's a bastard etc, then I'll be able to close the…

Send the email. Mocena is correct that it may come off as 'crazy' and there is the very likely chance that it will not influence the person's future behavior, but fuck them. There is also the very likely possibility that their reaction means shit to you. So, say what you want. Think about it, write it, edit it, send…

I guess it depends on what you want out of it. If you're looking for revenge or to right some wrong you think you've suffered, then you just need to be prepared for the consequences of your actions. You probably won't be taken seriously, it might come off as crazy, and the person who done you wrong is probably not…

I need some advice/hugs. I've been talking to this guy for 6 months. We'd both been burned by past relationships so I wouldn't even say we were dating...just talking constantly and occasionally hooking up. I was recovering from a bad beakup and just want a fuck buddy at first, but shit deepened and we became…

I filed for divorce yesterday. He left me over two months ago and there is no chance of reconciliation, but it's still really weird. I never in a million years thought I would get divorced. I went from feeling empowered (I'm getting this over with!) to feeling sad, to just plain exhausted. It's been a week, that's for…

When people are defensive they tend to not fully understand the message being conveyed to them.

Putting aside the obvious problems with the content of Lange's tweets (since it's been covered very well elsewhere), I'll just say this, since Lange seems concerned about the state of comedy -

There once was a man from Nantucket, who's dick was so short he could suck it. It grew from his chin and and slipped itself in, where forever it looked liked he stuck it.

As a few posters above have pointed out, he wasn't disturbed at all about the brutally murdered woman. It was only when he realized that there a male involved who would be negatively affected that it "hit him" there was anything "fucked up" about murdering a woman in cold blood and posting pictures of her dead body…

Well think of that little boy? He had to find some dead bitch and I'm sure it will upset him for life.

"Misogynistic cesspool"... you'll note that the user in question just said that it was fucked up because a kid was going to come home to find his mom dead. Not for her because she was tortured and murdered. But for the boy because will find her dead. Maybe the commenter in question just didn't include the rest but…

...clearly that women's lives only matter if they affect the men around them. Which from what I know of 4chan seems to be the overarching thought process.