SarahEmCee
SarahEmCee
SarahEmCee

Men actually love to get women off/pleasure women during sex, even if there is no emotional attachment - it's just a turn-on for them. I read once that aside from looks, men's biggest turn-on is the noises of pleasure we make during sex/us having orgasms/us clearly enjoying ourselves. Nature's fun for us all that way,

Btw: The sex tells you that you both were sexually compatible. :) That's something.

I don't think it's that clear cut. He might have had feelings for you, but not in a romantic. let's get married kind of way. He probably knows he's a mess and didn't want anyone to be affected by it. Thus the retreat.

It makes total sense because it's sex. But, unless I'm mistaken, there are 2 people involved here, and you have to keep in mind that whatever your feelings, inclinations, suspicions, etc. about him are, those are yours and not his. How can they be? You bring your stuff into this and he has nothing to do with your

It does. But don't let that taint your memories. You'll eventually look back on this as a great fucking summer.

Thank you to everyone who responded to my post about the cheating dude who disappeared after we had sex. I managed to lose my key so couldn't get back into my burner to respond, but the responses were greatly appreciated. For background, I talked to this guy all summer, he told me he loved me, we slept together and he

I just adopted my foster after she was with me for a year!

Here to sympathize with you, girl. It's not the same, but...

He's gorgeous! I'm surprised there wasn't a line out the door for him, but it's great he's happy with you!

Awww what a cutie, I love tuxies!! This is my little bear. If you happen to live in Georgia you should look into volunteering for Furkids, they are great

his body iz ready

Aww look at that sweet little guy! I don't understand how adorable kitties can't find homes, it doesn't add up. I bet you are a great owner :)

I'm a HUGE advocate of OkCupid. I was on and off it for a long enough time, had a few short-term relationships, a ton of terrible dates, and a lot of disappointment. However, on a whim I rejoined (yet again), was on for a month and had many awful dates, when this really sexy dude messaged me. And a few days later

Go to the bank tomorrow and move your money into accounts he doesn't have access to. Remove all the valuables from your home and put them someplace safe. Empty your safe deposit box. Shut off his credit card. Have your locks changed. Put his clothes on the porch. Then hire the best divorce lawyer in your town.

Not only do I also love cats but I have that same Pooh throw!

I have a tux too! I've made paintings and drawings of him, he's always posing.

OH AREN'T YOU JUST THE CUTEST THING EVER!! That is the best pose I've ever witnessed. Such body language.

Hugs from Team Cat HQ

Ugh, I'm so sorry you're going through that right now. I hope things turn around soon. Hang in there!