+1 Fantastic reference

Even in Hawaii? Or especially in Hawaii?

It's not as simple as some frat boy getting frosted tips or a kid having a bowl cut. He dyed it blonde and straightened it chemically. For someone to claim that he's never experienced racism because he isn't a n*gger (I didn't know he used the slur til this article) to dye his hair blonde and chemically straighten the…

That was kind of MY point if you couldn't detect the sarcasm. He has made no mention about what he plans to teach his sons regarding stuff like this so I think it's safe to assume that the priority is on the daughter's "responsibility" to keep herself from getting raped. That's my issue. We believe that our daughters…

And there will always be girls who make poor decisions and put themselves in vulnerable situations. Why is the automatic response about how to teach your daughter to protect herself, but not how to teach your son not to give into the pack mentality? Or not associate his worth as a man with how many women he can trick…

Right because it's either one or the other. Caution women and girls to be more vigilante about their surroundings OR teach boys about respecting a woman's autonomy and right to consent. It can't be both, and because of that, the onus should always be on the potential victims. Gotcha.