Oh, good! Does that mean you'll go away now? I hope so. Leave this place of ill-repute, my friend. Go to the land of purity and never return! May the wind sending you out of here and to an MRA lynch mob site be at your back. Deuces!

Because I feel like she's going to turn it into a fight about me being biphobic and that's not the issue. I'm sure she's going to feel angry and the fact that her being the bi is the lie I'm dumping her over doesn't help. She's going to feel discriminated against, I think. It is going to get ugly because neither of us…

Anger is my worst vice. You're so sweet and kind. Your words really touched and resonated with me. I feel so much calmer now that I am in the mindset of releasing some of the anger. *sniffle* an hour long internet hug.

The thing is that had she been upfront and talked to me about it, we wouldn't be here. She knew a little about my dating history and how I'd been burnt by bisexual women in THE most stereotypical way and I was just not ready to get into another relationship with current or former boyfriends who want to watch or being…

This is the best thing I've heard all night. I'm going to work on calming myself so that I can be honest and get it all out without things taking an ugly turn. Thank you so much. Here's 100 internet kisses. I'm going to work on getting into a mental place to be open and kind so that my anger will dissolve. This is…

This may sound crazy, but your comment made me smile. Hello, fella!

When we met I was recovering from two very bad "relationships" with bisexual women. I may have been somewhat disinclined to consider it, but there was a spark when I met her. We could have talked it out. A simple heads up! Maybe in a global sense I might be uncomfortable with bisexuals thanks to being gunshy from…

She knew that I'd had some pretty bad experiences with bisexual women and they'd left me feeling hurt and used. I did tell her that for the time going forward, I was going to stick to my own little wading pool and not have to worry about ex-boyfriends wanting to watch, etc. I told her that upfront when we met. She…

I can work with that. I just don't want this to turn into the stereotypical staggered lesbian relationship break-up which can last anywhere from 2 weeks to 6 months. And, I don't want a confrontation. The time for talking has gone. She could have told me the truth but for whatever reason opted not to tell me. I want…

This is excellent advice. Thank you.

I feel the same way, but you're gonna get roasted for saying that here. For the record, it really sucks. I was really into her and maybe sort of in love with her.

Well, she's still bisexual, she didn't stop being bisexual. Bisexuality remains regardless of the partner. I can't get past her being bisexual and I hate that she lied to me for a year. They are both issues. But, it seems like "tell her the truth" is the consensus. Thanks, SockPuppet.

I do not believe that this person lied and she's known her for a while. She said she's always called herself bisexual. I can see your point about being honest and helping her in the future. I really don't want to see her and have some sort of fight. What about asking her the bisexual thing over the phone? I don't want…

Thank you. Maybe I'll leave for a few days and give her time to get her things back to her place and I'll use your excuse.

Dating advice needed. Actually, it is breakup advice I'm seeking. I've seen some of you shred other lesbians for their feelings/attitudes toward bisexuals, so I don't want to get into that. I need a way to dump her without her knowing why it is (I found out that she's bi which she hid from me for almost a year). We've…