I would imagine same reason why you would go to work for a boss who, as a boss, is a decent person to work for. But as a person, you would never want to interact with them outside of work.

A lot of things could work well as a TV show if done right. How many actually get "done right"? Lots of great ideas and too many poorly executed.

We can take every precaution to the extreme- we can be fully covered, never go out, never socialize, never drink, never leave the house and still our home can be broken into and through no fault or failure we would still get raped.

First of all- sexism is sexism be it female against men or men against female. There is no reveres- though I think you know this already.

I think anything and everything can be taken as some kind of shaming with the wrong mindset and attitude. That seems to becoming a trend- hear something you don't like then call it shaming and attack it not listen to it.