Even if she's not a fearful victim, from his comments and the text if the book, she always gives him what he needs sexually. He "always wins" and "no means a woman wants to be dominated". That's in no way a balanced marriage based on compromise and mutual respect. I like to think compromise, respect and allowing your…

I love your comment and your name! *imagining wombat wandering around*

I'd dismiss all the douchbags if I could, but most didn't reply directly to me.

It's not 99.9% of men. It's much, much lower. It's hard to acknowledge that, but it's true. Read this article. Or hey, even listen to this bit by Lewis CK. This study, released by the UN, showed that 25% of men across Asian admitted to having sex with women without consent at least once in their lives. I see no…

This is fucking disgusting. "Gave it up""? "Shut the valve off"? Your wife is a person, not a hole.
Also, what's up with "got him to marry her"? In most cases, the man proposes. I'll bet you did. If you proposed to your wife because she was "giving it up" and you thought marriage would mean you'd have permanent access…

Yeah seriously. I can recall two different occasions when my partner stopped, pulled out, and asked me if I was okay, because he thought maybe I wasn't. I was, but I think maybe I was just distracted or something. But the point is that men who aren't shitheads —and men who are GOOD lovers— actually want their partners…

I know, right?

Pssst. Douchebag has a comment in the greys about how he ignores 'no' from his wife.

Ah, yes, "Some of my best friends are....."

Nobody said your wife coerced you into marriage. Someone said that repeated attempts to have sex with someone who repeatedly says no is coercion (which it is) and you've made this link which makes absolutely no sense.
Look, I'm sorry you're not getting laid. I'm sorry that your wife won't fuck you anymore and…

I suspect that might be the case in YOUR relationships, as the horror of what they've gotten into slowly dawns.

Definite troll.

A person (male or female, black or white) who has been brainwashed into thinking that rape is part of a good marriage cannot be held responsible for saying things to that effect.

I smell troll.

Yes, from the perspective of a victim who has been brainwashed into thinking rape is ok. You have no excuse.

Her husband has stated that he has sex with her without her consent. She has stated that her husband has sex with her without her consent.

I would dispute that a woman's sex drive drops off after , marriage like she has some sexual aversion to gold, but alright I'll go with it.

Relenting to someones advances in the end isn't consent, it's coercion. If you are "overbearing" in the matter of trying to obtain consent that isn't consent, it's coercion.

To force, compel, coerce, or badger someone until they give you sex is rape

Asking again and again and forcing someone to give in is rape