Ugh!! So much rage for you. Like everyone else came first before you (I dealt with a guy who did similar crap). I'm so glad you're out of there.

The silent treatment is different though. It's often petulant and punitive, as a way to drive the other person crazy so they do what the silent person wants (often with no hints). The silent person doesn't want to voice what they want because maybe they were taught not to, but this ends up causing unnecessary hurt,…

This makes so much sense. Like when cheaters get paranoid their partner is cheating on them.

Idk, they could be real, but he was definitely like "you wimmins should want to look like this." Uh, no? She's beautiful, but there are guys attracted to more breast shapes and sizes than that.

Yep! And if you google her, her breasts are not perfectly round grapefruits. They have a beautiful, natural shape like on the "YES" column. Distorted views for sure. :/

Sick. Just sick. I wish someone she trusts would tell her she is under no obligation to put up with him, that most men aren't like this, and that she can form an escape plan. I just... ugh. Abusive relationships aren't so obvious for the victim, and she probably believes this is "normal." She's not dumb; she probably…

I can definitely see the abusive ones thinking like that.

You're right, I never thought of it that way. I only cry if I'm sad. I'm not ashamed of it, but the last thing I want to do is cry in front of my SO.

It's the worst!

Good question. Some guesses: maybe because they know some guys use it as a form of manipulation, and assume we're the same? Or, maybe they previously dealt with/heard of women who faked tears to get their way, like a temper tantrum?

I wish. :(

Empathetic and wise. Perfect.

Jezebel hug! :D Brilliant choice of words.

What is a 90s purity test? :| never heard of that. Like how dirty your mind is?

This makes me rage. And he wonders why he's single?

Scary. He trades you in for a newer model, then those 3 hours a day in front of the mirror you spent grooming/primping to keep him happy have gone down the drain. :( I feel really bad for her, and wonder how many guys think like her hubby. Yuck.

Well, this was depressing. :(

Butz won't anyone think of the misandry???

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• cue Scooby Doo music as she chases him*