They may not be vegan(unless the frappé thing is vegan-adaptable?), but they are vegetarian, which makes this information relevant for a fairly wide group of people.

I'm less bothered by bone-char whitened sugar than by the use of cochineal. It uses a very secondary bi-product of the meat industry, while cochineal is an industry in itself in which beetles are raised and killed solely for the pigment they produce.

Agreed.

OK, kind of creeped out - many of the models seem really young, and some of the photos seem like your standard, "meant for the guy you're wooing but not the whole world" cell-phone shots.

This, exactly. It makes any interaction about the man's evaluation of my body/fuckability.

Yes! This is such a bizarre and widespread perspective.

I follow their eyes and obviously look down at my breasts and then back up at them, inquisitively. In a "what did you notice?/is something wrong?/is there a stain on my shirt?" way. It's obvious and either makes them ashamed, or if there really was something on your breasts, gives them a chance to explain and save…

Nono, you just don't get it!

I recently gained weight, and some of it went to my breasts. Most of my previously cleavage-less tops now show cleavage, even though none of them are particularly low-cut. I don't feel like shopping for an entirely new wardrobe, and none of my tops are particularly scandalous (all really standard necklines), so…

I think that that loss is exacerbated by the fact that we are taught to allow men to judge us/our desirability all the time. I would rather not have to worry about men staring at all (no leering in my twenties, and therefore nothing to create by contrast a sudden invisibility in my forties) but instead have meaningful…

No. It's not that I find unattractive men who stare at me creepy. It's that men who stare at me and make me uncomfortable are unattractive to me because of their behaviour. There is a big difference.

It's got nothing to do with being noticed or not.

Yes! Sometimes because I don't want to get my clothes dirty if I can avoid it, sometimes because I'm probably in my underwear already as that is one of the major benefits of living alone.

Semi-accidental puns!

I really don't get what's more vanilla about missionary than about any other position. It can be (which honestly isn't a bad thing - sweet, emotional, and cheesy sex has its place too!), but it can also be mixed up with most kinks.

Wow - I had no idea, thanks for the warning.

I'm sad to say that this is why I love missionary. All the fun, half the hip pain.

That's what cut it for me. Ice-cream is the food of the gods, but chocolate ice-cream is meh at best.

I hate dark chocolate!

I like her too, but I kind of get the sense that this season will be about the toxic work environment/Don grinding her down.