The whole thing looks really awkward. And ODLR's skin is a weird colour.

I wonder if more isn't being made of her actual legal work than is really there. Her work is described in vague terms: "worked on", "was involved with", but not what she actually did. And since she comes from a wealthy connected family, I wouldn't rule out the possibility that jobs were created for her and she…

Bear in mind that she comes from a wealthy, very well-connected family. Which makes it a whole lot easier to accomplish stuff.

"Missionary as the bottom"? You mean cowgirl?

Ooohhh yeah.

Actually.... there is such a man, and he did an AMA, and apparently lots of women are into it/them, AND it/they have "turned" a few men.

Maybe she picked it all up in the USA.

Hm. The TSA once searched my bag to investigate two suspicious containers of liquid/gel inside. It was jam, made by a Mennonite family from Tennessee.

I know what that is without clicking to reveal.

And so often if you notice the subtle stuff as being questionable, there is someone else around to do the rationalizing/excusing for you. Many people are rubbish at recognizing red flags in someone else's relationship, let alone their own.

Thanks for this. I'm tired of seeing SO MUCH attention focused on what the target/victim is or is not doing in the abusive situation, and so much less on the abuser. There are a lot of fucked up people in the world and many of them are simply constantly on the lookout for targets. They are impossible to avoid. …

Iceland is the safest place you could possibly go on vacation! GO!

It'll be worth it. GO.

But you can think it ALL. YOU. WANT.

Really thankful for the blurred image thing just now.

I've been twice and will go again. Iceland is AWESOME.

Upthread some comments suggest that it's to create the feeling of ridges etc, through a rubber glove and some lotion.

Where are you? I will date you. Normal and boring is my jam.

I did like the scene in The Other Woman where Leslie Mann is whining about getting divorced and having to date again and how horrible and gross all the men are, and Cameron Diaz says "I know you think it's that bad, but it's actually much, much worse."

Actually, I'm pretty sure my gyno is gay. I think he's in it for the money (plus immigrant parents pushing him really hard to be a doctor).