PhoebeElaine
PhoebeElaine
PhoebeElaine

"She was later disciplined for underage drinking, but the players were not."

I think you're reading criticisms that aren't there. From a BDSM perspective, this still isn't okay, because there's no safe word, no way for her to withdraw consent during the scene. Even for people who are into the 24/7 lifestyle thing, there has to be a way for the submissive partner to withdraw consent to physical

Yeah, and it's usually coupled with some BS about how they were spanked growing up, and look how well they turned out...

It doesn't seem so consenting. It seems brainwashy and abusive and maximum creepsville, and I'm terrified for the children being raised in these homes.

I was spanked as well (albeit not exclusively), but I'm referring to people who think they're taking some kind of moral stand by hitting their kids, and that drugs/drinking/sex/whatever-the-fuck wasn't a problem back before the liberals/feminists/gays/muties shut down spanking as an institution (see also those

Oh, man. I wonder how my Jewish boyfriend is going to like my request for him to pretend to be Jesus while he spanks me. Thanks for the new fantasy, article header image!!

Am I being accidentally Christian a few times a week? I never thought JC would approve. Who knew!

Wait, they think having a healthy relationship requires that a man treats his wife like a child? O_o Does not compute. Also, removal of makeup privileges? "You burned my dinner, no lipstick for you for a week! Go stand in the corner and think about what you did." Creepy.

So what you're saying is that because she gave someone a hand job, that entitles them to fuck her while she's passed out.

You're missing the point. The point is, she could have been wearing a burqa, stone-cold sober, and screaming "NO!" at the top of her lungs and still have gotten raped because some people think it's more important to tell women how to dress/drink/act than it is to tell people not to rape. As long as there are people

You realize that an overwhelming majority of rape victims are sexually assaulted by partners or people they know, right? Like, you're perpetuating this really fucked up narrative that women have to be jumped in the street by some big, terrifying stranger in order to be real rape victims. This is why so many rapes go

I think the problem is you are talking out of both sides of your mouth. You're saying her behavior put her in a position where she was vulnerable to rape but she shouldn't have been raped. This way you get to say her behavior was wrong and rape is wrong too.

What importance are you giving the fact that she gave one of the boys a handjob? You mentioned it several times. Why?

You are a victim blamer. That is why people are saying that about you.

Only the tiniest sliver of a percentage of rapes happen in dark alleyways, perpetrated by strangers you fuckwad. What I'd love is if you went and actually educated yourself about the things you're speaking about before opening your mouth.... or typing on your computer.

What an ugly ass, perverted piece of fiction. Keep your foulness to yourself.

This is for you.

So.......

Dude, I went to high school and somehow [miraculous, I know] managed to not rape any of the drunk girls that inevitably populate parties. The girls didn't thank me the next day. Wanna know why? Because we're not supposed to act like goddamn animals.

Are you saying manly dudebros are physically incapable of NOT RAPING PEOPLE? Like....you realize how insulting that is to men as well, right?