I’m ashamed to say I would part with genuine US dollars to see this.

I actually think it’s enlightened self interest to do so. What could repair our global standing more than sharing a life-saving vaccine with those who need it? We trashed our global reputation with four years of the former guy, and this is a chance make at least some amends.

I assumed this was a “fellow kids” outfit.

Ehh, she is one of the most beautiful women that ever was.  I’m not giving extra credit for that.

Have you noticed that chunky 90s shoes are back again? I am so excited! When I look back at pictures of myself in college, I am literally always wearing some sort of flat or boot with two inches of rubber sole. I remember the day I saw my first pointy toed shoes a few years later, and it really was the beginning of…

Do you really think we need that though? I bet you every single person commenting on this thread could give you a long lecture about the health benefits of weight loss and the perils of being overweight. Education isn’t the problem. Weight loss is incredibly difficult in the losing process, and even harder to…

That is such a smart strategy!  

I did the exact same thing and was eventually lead to the wonders of Leonard Cohen.  

This just seems like a new variety of disordered eating. One of my dear friends is obsessed with being a healthy eater. Everything she puts in her mouth is evaluated for its healthful properties and foods are frequently labeled good or bad, in a moral as well as nutritional sense. There is always a very strong element…

Thank you for the laugh :)

I know relationships about give and take on many levels at once, but I’ve been thinking a lot about the ways that living in a patriarchy subsidizes men in ways they clueless about. At minimum, I’ve resolved not to protect them from that reality any longer. You definitely deserve to have a partner who appreciates…

This is a very bad take. Grownups need to manage their spaces, especially if they are shared, just like they manage other adult tasks (paying taxes, car maintenance, etc.). We don’t have bosses dolling out tasks and timelines for these other example chores, they are just part of adulthood. There is nothing magical…

Do you think he ever understood how shitty that was?  I’m aghast.

red pickup trucks are my actual nemesis

Don’t worry, I’m 46 and this lady looks like she could be my aunt.  It’s not you.   If we learned anything from that former guy’s administration, it’s that evil is aging to the skin.

I am so sorry you went through all that, and I hope things are much better now.

I think that too. 

I’ve been reading your replies and I love you.

It’s a tough one. I think sex is a place where our subconscious minds, including all of the terrible messaging we’ve absorbed, come out to play. Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá about the sex lives of hunter-gatherers really helped dismantle some of those erroneous messages, and to remove a lot of…

One fun thing about fb is that there are groups for everything, and they often have strict moderation rules.  I’m a member of “This cat is C H O N K Y”, “This cat is assembled incorrectly” and about a million horse groups.   One thing you must do is shut down FB’s ability to follow you off fb.  It’s complicated so you…