I know quite a lot about that, actually. Been with my partner for almost nine years, married for about two. And I pay attention to him and he pays attention to me, but focusing on communication 100% of the time? That's not how people work. There are many distractions, from a text to a pretty bird in the back yard to…

I know you are coming from a really good place, and trust me, I was raised with the same human-to-human etiquette and definitely think it is important. That said, I feel like you might not understand the interactions which you witness (your bias is fair but is, in the end, bias). I am technically a millennial, and I…

But some (most) beers taste completely different on tap even if they are available in bottles or cans. Anyway, I live in an area where every bar (and some liquor stores) has growlers and this is definitely not a hipster type place.

I love sunglasses in general, but I love them in particular because I can impolitely stare at people without them knowing... I get into trouble when I'm wearing regular glasses and forget, though.

You know what? The ratings probably would tank. Because there is no way the producers could overcome various viewers' hang ups about interracial relationships, and because if it were an all-Black show to get around that issue, their core, white audience just wouldn't watch. There is still such a divide between white…

Here is where I take significant issue with your comments and tone:

Hey, you sound really upset, so I'm definitely trying to write this in the most calm, respectful way possible. Please know that I am not trying to insult you, but that I am genuinely perplexed by your decisions.

If anything you wrote was an invitation to measured, well-informed debate, I would have been interested. But it wasn't. It was provocation in the guise of being "clever," "witty," "vaguely humorous." If you'd like to come here and be respectful and engage in a real conversation, that would be great! But that's not…

You know what, whatever. Another case of somebody with privilege thinking he can make assumptions, or has valuable input (when yeah, it is clearly trolling, not valid dissension), or is in any way appreciated for said white-dick-centric snarktastic asshattery. You do not know me at all, but it is pretty clear that…

I hope you realize that writing these thoughts, these questions, doesn't make you seem clever in any way. It doesn't reflect well upon you. You can think of twenty ways to ask snarky questions to cover for your cis white male insecurities, but in the end it just won't work. You will not out-reason forward-thinking,…

I know right? Like I'm sure there is a compliment in there somewhere... Maybe?

It must feel terrible, as a white male, to feel so personally offended and victimized by the positive evolution of social discourse. God, no wonder you result to trolling on a feminist website to justify your white, straight, cis male identity - you must feel attacked daily by the fight for equality stemming from the…

From a much beloved older female family member, upon looking at my driver's license picture: "That doesn't look anything like you!" To which I replied, "I think I look awesome in that picture..." Her response, "You do!"

Oh, I dunno, back before season four I was Spike/Willow all the way, with a healthy dose of Spike/Willow/Angel(us).

Yep yep! He's wonderful. :-) Looking forward to valentines day because we do Chinese takeout, science fiction tv/movies, and craft beer. I lucked out!

He kind of freaked me out at first too haha. But he seems like a nice guy so his face has grown on me.

Yeah, the super hot/athletic guys look nice enough, but... Thanks for confirming what I have suspected! Haha. I'd rather stick with a cuddly guy than some sort of overdeveloped Adonis.

I often look at the muscled, perfect guys and think that naughty times with them would be like licking a marble statue. Good to look at but oddly unsatisfying and kinda creepy. And you just described my fluffy, bearded, craft-beer nerd hubby! Very good for snuggling.

As I've gotten older I've realized that guys with a little fluff (not that he has that much at all) are more attractive to me. He is adorable right now. Looks like a great dad/husband instead of omghottttt. Love it.

Thank you! I was feeling particularly verbose last night...