As someone whose first CD was Crazy, Sexy, Cool and first VHS tape was Hocus Pocus, it's like my life has come full circle.

I agree that the "dream job" (like the american dream) is pretty much a fallacy; I knew this even before I started working thanks to realistic parents. Work is work. I do think, however, that it should not be a luxury to not be entirely miserable and sacrifice your health/sanity for the 40 (if you're lucky) or more…

But here's the problem. A woman's sexuality is, under the patriarchal system, the ONLY source of any power. Which is why it must be covered up, hidden and shamed. Take away sex, and you've taken away all the power. Using sexuality as a tool for power is ancient, but not, in and of itself, a positive move.