I've always thought that one of the great things about ASOIAF is that GRRM seems to really want YOU, as the reader, to decide who you're rooting for. He sort of says "Ok, here are these people...they're all fucked up in their own way. Decide who you think is sympathetic, and go with that." I think this comes out…

I say continue. *slight spoilers if you dare*

I suggest you stop trying to police her tone and tell her what to do. I also suggest you stop making excuses for people being dicks.