Oh my God, thank you for this. I never knew.

No. No she didn’t. She put on a wig.

It’s a wig. I promise. Wonder no more.

It’s just a wig. Takes no time at all.

Her wig game is on fleek.

No time at all. It’s a wig.

I don’t find the wigs and extentions impressive. They’re just wigs and extentions. Anyone can buy them.

This is a relevant question. I’m surprised more people are not asking it. The press has stated that she and her husband met at Howard, where she was not passing as black, and he was a med student, so I would guess that he’s in on this. That makes the whole situation even more fucked in a way.

Yes. Her recent rhinoplasty has done wonders for her career. It’s fascinating.

My earnest response to this is-

‘Skinny fat’. Ugh. I can’t with this anymore. I’ve been skinny fat before and it’s better than fat fat by a long shot but ultimately still unsatisfying. My problem is that I only lose a pound a week on my current plan and I’d really like to structure my eating/workout so I lose more but don’t fall into the ‘skinny…

I don’t think this mindset applies to me (wish it did) because I’m getting back in shape after a mishap with some medication that caused me to gain weight rapidly. Now I’m a 5ft 5 inch tall woman who weighs 145, with no muscle tone. So that’s gross, so I now I do 1 1/2 on the treadmill everyday as way to start losing…

Why are you sorry? That's insane!

Suffersfools, I call bullshit on you coming on here, talking about catching your husband with child porn and then staying in the marriage.

because sub-human= person of color. OK.

It's great, but I had a different reaction. I cried throughout the entire film, and consider it very dark.

I just saw this film and though I really liked it, I found it to be anything but placid. I cried almost throughout the entire thing. The main character's sadness and loneliness was so global and crushing. Really, I couldn't stop crying.

In my experience a lot of black men use the word female.

These books sound very cool. My reality is that I'm 40, single, in deep student loan debt, underemployed, and live with my parents because I'm still recovering from rape trauma that left me unable to work for a very long time. I've progressed very slowly from unemployment and years and years of suicidal depression,…

What's an IBR?