Right. I'm not saying she should be excused from the "bootstrap" convo. But can someone of color go a month without having to confront the crappy POVs of race. I would love to just get a break from it without it involving me having to leave the US.

Great point. She's might be uncomfortable because like most successful blacks, we don't want always have to explain or be defined by race. I'm black, comfortable with it and the discussions of race but it's an ugly feeling when you have to explain/discuss with a person who will challenge you on certain perceptions,…

That culturally she sees things differently.

Not for you it doesn't.

Oh so not feeling Fresh off the Boat because of the stereotype mom. And I was oh so looking forward to this.

That was Step 5.

Zoe is a Latina. Not an African-America woman who was raised by a AA woman. She's black and doesn't seem to be uncomfortable with that, but her cultural identity/mentality is so different.

Umm...there are plenty of nonracists whites who wouldn't be on the Zoe train.

mental illness or not. That energy, however misguided, was directed toward a positive place. Education pays off eventually.

Oh that's just subjective.

Oh the visuals. LOLOL. Solange yelling "I got your South Side fishsticks beeeeYOCH"

True. But you really think she had that baby?>!?! lol

Missing that humor bone, eh?

She left Destiny's Child as an adult.

Sighhhhh.....

Naw I shouldn't. I'm fine.

Naaaaaw.....just sayin' we tend to handle things ooohhh sooo slightly err different. Well some of us that is.

Like I said, I know it's prudish.....

Compare Destiny Child Beyonce to Beyonce now. You'll see it. Plus, you can see the tattle-tell roundness/valley that occurs from implants between her breast in this photo. But like I said, they're good. I'd go to her doctor.

I was being sarcastic.