I find I get highly irritable after I orgasm (typically not wanting to be touched, etc.) but if I don't come, I remain all warm and lovey. Given this, it's rather unfortunate that my boyfriend can cause me to orgasm, but my other lovers can't.

My boyfriend becomes The Accouncer when I initiate dirty talk. He's not being ironic either, so I often have to stop him in case I start laughing...

I have a wonderful, simple and happy relationship with my boyfriend and I get all the drama from the guys I'm fucking the rest of the time (we have an open relationship).

I am so fucking lucky to feel at least 95% okay about my body most of the time.

Wow at that picture - it's like Jennifer Love Hewitt and Maggie Gyllenhaal had a baby...

I think it may be the result of the stereotype that women pursue the opposite sex for love and commitment, whereas men just want a fresh piece of ass. The break down of a marriage is more justified, in the public's eyes, if the individual doing the cheating is doing it for love, because they didn't feel those…

I'm fairly certain that almost no disabled/heavily pregnant/very old/otherwise infirm people can actually get on the London Underground, on account of it being horrendously packed, having almost zero accessibility and having about a bazillion steps between the platform and the street in most stations.

I used to go to the university pool in Toronto and, mild-mannered Brit that I am, I was regularly confronted with lots of very old ladies wandering around the changing rooms and communal showers (in which one rinsed before swimming) completely naked. This was a complete shock for me after years of using individual…

I've said it before and I'll say it again - surely _Saudi Arabia_ is the Saudi Arabia of feminism.

Actually, research shows that people are more tolerant of the gay community if they believe homosexuality to be a biological/genetic trait that is not chosen by the individual who carries it. This may mean that they still find it to be some kind of abnormality (which is still quite homophobic) but it tends to reduce…

Is he going to be suing the rest of the BDSM community for copying his work as well? These are hardly unoriginal themes...

Masturbating to music is as risky as having sex to music - if I find myself doing it in time with the beat, the mood immediately goes.

All I can say (as a Psych grad, with limited chops that that gives me) is that finding a biological solution to a problem absolves the sufferer of responsibility and often offers a quick fix ('Take this pill and all will be well'). As to whether or not female sexual dysfunction can ever be purely biological - I'll…

My lover is being very hard to read at the moment but my boyfriend is fantastic, so it's been an odd, but positive, Valentine's Day.

Sexy, not slutty? Sexy, but not sexual. 'Be visual entertainment for men, but don't actually act on it.' She's like society, in book form.

I found this case to be highly disturbing. Considering how widely advocated (in parts of the US and UK) abstinence-only education programmes are, there are many invidividuals on this planet who are not aware of the full implications of sexual activity and perhaps understand even less than this, but the state does not…

These are great stories, but (and I know this has been said downthread, but it just doesn't seem to be getting through) the communities depicted in BFGWs are Irish Travellers (not Roma/Romany) and it is an accurate portrayal of their modern lives in the UK.

@KillMeNow is making an omelet with fried eggs: You know, kids ask me that ALL the time. It's like it's hardwired that grown-ups have someone in their lives. It's also really annoying when I'm single and I don't want to have to explain why or justify it to someone who doesn't know what sex is...

How about when you're at a family event and you're passed someone's baby like it's a bloody joint and all you can do is stare into it's eyes and see the recognition of 'What the fuck do I do now?' staring back at you?

@Girl Unawares: I'm more repulsed by the involvement of the mother - when I was in my early teens, whilst trying on a bright yellow bathing suit, my mother said (in a fairly negative way) that she could see my pubes through it. I went straight to the bathroom, shaved them off and promptly suffered the worst re-growth…