My father started raping me when I was four, and I did not experience that as rape. I just thought I was "special" and a "good girl." It actually takes a bit of awareness and self-worth to experience abuse for what it is. And many children just don't have that. Sad.

most modern porn is super, super gross and about as sexy as a car accident.

Of course she has complex feelings; this is one of the ways in which sexual assault is particularly pernicious. It makes the victim feel a degree of complicity that you simply don't feel if someone bops you on the head in an alley and runs off with your wallet.

Well, if you're a lady, your first mistake was thinking. That's men's work, and you'll never understand it, any more than those hilarious dogs will ever learn to play poker. If you're a man, well, just do as you feel! Your actions are guided by God (and the little woman, and if you slip up, remember that it's her…

Or maybe an empty box of Krispy Kremes and a note that says kiss my ass.

Also, I don't understand why everyone is being so nasty about the middle eastern prince thing. So in 15 minutes, she raised half a million dollars for hurricane victims. But no, by all means...continue to sit behind a computer screen reading gossip blogs with a cup of coffee and a self-satisfied smirk! It's nearly as…

I can understand if you have qualms with K-Stew's acting, but I thought that - as feminists - we were against telling women to smile or making fun of women for not smiling.

And tea, apparently.

OR MAYBE, JENNY, GUYS ARE AFRAID THAT YOU HAVEN'T BEEN PROPERLY VACCINATED.

According to my sister, who got her BFA in fashion design, doing a sheer top with nothing underneath is supposed to be so that the garment isn't interrupted by the lines of another piece of fabric. Basically, when you put an undergarment of some kind underneath, the piece almost becomes more about the undergarment…

Thank you. I find myself explaining this a lot as well. Every time someone new is in my yard I get: "How do your hens lay eggs with no rooster?" Well, I have never been with a cock either but I still lay an egg every month.

You are one of the few people to acknowledge this. He was a victim, he has a fucked-up view about it. Everyone else is ready to crucify him. What is that called again? Victim something or other. Oh yeah, BLAMING.

I know everyone is really rage-y about this, but that whole statement makes me sad. First of all, it doesn't surprise me to see another abuse victim defend their abuser. Here's someone who, as a young, defenseless child, was victimized by abuse AND now thinks it is OK. That is basically how abuser manipulation work;…

I have said it before and I will say it again: singular anecdotal instances are not enough to draw a widespread conclusion.

Same theory.

"Get in a time machine and go back 12 years. Then go fuck yourself."

I hope more people come to understand that you need zero equipment and a 6x6 space, IN YOUR OWN HOME, to get in phenomenal shape. Gyms are just another exercise in the commoditization of your body.

I DON'T EVEN CARE IF THIS IS REAL.

Snuck out of parents house a week before my 15th birthday. 1988.
Walked to the party in the surfer-laden suburbs of Lake Forest (yep,
the OC baby!). Was wearing thin peach top with black bra underneath,
and short black 80s skirt that had those 3 ruffles tiered down it. Was
blonde. Was very blonde due to Sun-In. Was tan.…