I actually find men in sexy dresses really, well, sexy. I wish sexy tight dresses weren't gendered, because these guys look totally hot.

You know, teenage girls post pretty dumb photos on the internet sometimes, but it's clear that they don't intend those photos to be scrutinized at family dinner tables and described in detail on blogs. Yes, they put those photos on social media, but clearly they mean them for their friends, etc.

To take another approach - constantly blaming women/girls for a man's inability to 'control his lust' only serves to reaffirm and further rape culture and the idea that women are to blame for sexual crimes committed against them. Her post obviously didn't go quite so far, but it's part of the problem. It just further…

I was openly queer as a teenager, and I think that's a very good description. I think it is worse than some forms of bullying, though, at least based on my experience. I was bullied for being queer and for being smart (I skipped my freshman year, so it was hard to hide).

I rescued a little feral kitten a couple of summers ago on 3rd Avenue in midtown—it was just hopping around trying to get at something on the other side of a Duane Reade window. Long story short, I had to get rabies shots. Totally worth it.

According to Urban Dictionary (because all the cool kids love dictionaries!), "cake" can mean: 1) a sweet pastry, 2) a kilo of cocaine, 3) money, or 4) a woman's booty. "Bake a cake" can mean: 1) to have sexual intercourse, 2) to kill or murder, 3) to snort coke, 4) to perform fellatio, 5) to take a shit, 6) to flirt…

"Cake" is what the kids are calling a new drug that is produced by baking multiple layers of purple spray paint onto a cookie sheet. The "cake" is then ground up and consumed rectally. I've heard the high described as "feeling good, like you're really stoned, but also wanting to get all of that paint out of your…

Mrs. and Mr. Catheter will be wed at the FSM Chapel on Fiddler's Green.

New word for these kind of shows: Fremdschämen: Verb, (reflexive, colloquial) to feel ashamed on someone else's behalf, to feel ashamed for someone else (e.g. because they don't feel ashamed of themselves) who has done something embarrassing. (Why Mr. Bean exists.)

I can't bring myself to finish reading this on the day Seamus Heaney died.

So, here's the thought that ran through my head. Someone, somewhere will buy this book, because they like the show. It will be the only book of poetry they have ever owned and after reading some of it will never, ever, ever, ever read another book of poetry again. They will make awful assumptions about what poetry…

You don't need a white asshole. You ARE a white asshole.

My wife and I frequent a life-style (i.e., swinger) resort and this idea is brought up on the associated message boards on a regular/annual basis. We've always thought it was a dumb idea because it locks you into a particular category before you get to know people (i.e., we don't swing, but there's a lot of wiggle…

I had a straight "friend" of mine, in all seriousness, tell me how it was so unfair of gay people to steal the rainbow because she just thought it was pretty and wanted to wear it without out people thinking she was gay (because obviously gross!)

Ok I think it's pretty clear to everyone that the video is not literally condoning shooting people in the dick for street harassment

I understand your perspective, and appreciate your response. Even though I am an old fart, I too am always looking for new inspiration of any age. Julie Zeilinger deeply impressed and delighted me when she started her teen feminist blog, which I found on my own a long time ago.

Luna - Urban has a point and your email to her is both condescending and blatantly untrue.

Thank you, Jezebel, for making it so abundantly clear that, while you are good at picking young gamechangers for the future, you don't seem to look to any older women (i.e. over 40, as someone said below) for wisdom or inspiration. For a site that gives Hilary an occasional nod, I'm both surprised and disappointed.…