Oh the cringyness. Background: We were in negotiations for a 3some. Me, who is a woman, with him the main lover, plus another man. I had the man picked out and the plan was to warm him up to the idea and then have the main lover over. So I typed, to my current lover: “He is adorable. I can’t wait to have you both…

I got family-famous for sticking my finger in my food when I was admonished once for not ‘touching’ my supper. Adults laughed, I lived to not throw up another day. I should have had more tolerance for the issue of texture though. I couldn’t eat mashed potatoes without gagging as a child. So when my 4 year old refused…

Gah - I need all the maths apparently. The small difference between the length and circumference really threw me. Also inches and centimetres in the original article.

Oi. From the Guardian:

Hey Hillary I am all about the girth personally but your 4.6 inches around should maybe be 4.6 cm? Which seems small. Hmm. Can't be right though?

I think the off-camera voice totally sounds like Kathy G. And the loud silence? She just doesn't want to take any of the storm shit hit.

Actually the answer may be in your age. You are young btw (I am not). Is it possible that at this stage of your life where you (and lots of people your age) are developing their sexual agency right now you relate to a woman's body more as you are far more familiar with one, and, well, they are beautiful. It could be…

Ahh I am late to the party. This might be buried but it's a doozy. Flying to Houston one night and the plane was delayed. My then boyfriend offered to deal with the rebooking and I headed to the airport bar. Had about 6 shots in an hour and was nicely bombed by the time he joined me. On our way out to the car (flight…

I share your pain.

Also expecting the EVIL ATHEIST faction.

Oh this post AND ALL THE THREADS have just made my day. I needed a giggle, thank you.

Just circling back to thank you for posting this. What an interesting read! Our brains are weird, yes? Also I think I am out of the greys (finally!) so kinja is tres strange as well :) Thank you too to whoever made that happen. I have had a neurologist for years due to a rather bizarre health issue catch and he mostly…

I am going to thank the OP after I write this - kind of happy this thread happened - although it also sounds like the subject has created a lot of anxiety for folks. And me too, at different times, but I also have very warm and lovely experiences. I was freaked out when I found out about a couple of health issues, and…

Ugh, yes. I have one of these in my Facebook feed. And women think he's the bee's knees. He sounds way more MRA than any male friends I have who don't proclaim their feminism.

I think I love you.

Thank you so much for the follow! It is grand to be not greyed! Truly digging millihelen. Awesome job!

Oh I know. I could have lived without hearing that. And my poor mom! I hope the grief he took after it was disclosed ended up evening that shit out.

Dad's say the darndest things don't they? The gender disappoint though! Sorry you heard that! But yeah, they can still be awesome. They too can learn! I followed two sons and he apparently really wanted a daughter (read: princess) just no to the damn thighs! Dude, I was over 9lbs, that is good chubby...he got over it.

And this helps no one but apparently the first words out of my dad's mouth (to my mum) when I was born were, "Agh, she's got YOUR thighs." Thanks dad. Whatevs. THEY ARE STRONG. My lips, however, are very thin. :/ Love this new column!

My teenage insomnia returned when I hit menopause. Doc put me on 50 mg of elavil (an antidepressant but very low dose-works like a charm. No weight issues or orgasm stoppage. - no side effects basically on that low a dose.