I think I can win this.

Dog poop counts, yes?

I'm finally coming clean about this sh** show of a story.

Back when my ex and I were dating, I was really weird about pooping around him and his family. They were super white, and they were all so thin and wispy that I was convinced no one in his family ever pooped. So I'm hanging out and I realize that my tia's…

I don't have a poop story. I'm commenting purely so that you can all laugh at my British discomfort at the idea of sharing a poop story. Or reading a poop story. Or generally acknowledging that poop is a thing that happens.

+1.

That's not a dog. That's a rat with a blow-out.

i will do the horoscopes for these people.

About the response I'd expect from people who literally think the universe revolves around them.

Well, this guy hasn't snapped out of his cultural conditioning either.

There are many studies showing though that having a girl makes men considerably less sexist (having a child in generall does so, but much more if it's a girl). Just for some good news.

The sentence for culpable homicide can be anything from the 15 year maximum down to a suspended sentence, community service, or fine. The typical sentence is apparently about 7 years.

I think there's a lot of confusion about South African rulings vs. our own. Every news outlet has been reporting that he could face up to 15 years, but it's pretty unlikely. Meanwhile, in the US, when we hear "found guilty of equivalent to manslaughter" we think "woohoo jail time!" I don't know how they'll rule…

Yes, he is unsettlingly hot. Do you watch Hannibal, in which Anderson is also dope nasty hot?

What if I live in a city that is predominantly white? By default, the majority of men I will look at will be white.

Since dating is not a democracy, it's not racist to have a preference for a person of similar background. But... when people say stuff like "I don't find Asian men attractive," I have to wonder, did you really need to communicate that shit to me? It's called an inner life — that's where you put those thoughts you…

Are we really going with the word "racist" to describe dating preferences or attraction? Clearly in many cases these preferences are the result of historical and contemporary attitudes towards men and women of different races and ethnicities. That's an important discussion to have. But I'm so uncomfortable with the…

I think its an interesting idea, but 2009 is a little late to the party. Internet dating went mainstream WAY before that.

Sorry but I don't think its racist to only date people of your race. I'm a black woman and I only date black men, does that make me racist. Or is it just racist if someone that is non black only want to date within their race.

Hypothesis: the bias towards dating one's race has gone up since 2009 because earlier adopters of internet dating were more likely to be nonconformists and more open to date people of different backgrounds. As the masses have all joined the internet dating trend, the real conservative preference in the population is…

I think you are going to date whom ever you're attracted to, what ever that happens to mean to you. I've dated men that aren't of my ethnic background, but I'm generally more attracted to those of a similar background to mine. Does that make me racist? I don't think so.