You can be Jewish and not support the Occupation. Then you are both on the same side.

Please. I’m Jewish and she’s 1000% right. Feminism is not relevant if it’s not intersectional in 2017. Zionism is colonialism, and we have to look at that.

Yeah, I had a therapist I was seeing for other issues, and she kept pushing the appearance/clothes thing, even though I was pregnant and struggling with morning sickness. I'm a therapist myself, and I would never go there regarding someone's appearance unless they established it as their goal and even then it would…

Yes. And I'm white.

To be clear, most women that are married and have children in my circle have graduate or professional degrees. I don't know if you properly construed my point.

Yeah, I hate to say it, but in my social circle of 30something women, the most successful women are also the single, child free women. Maybe it's because the rest of us got mommytracked, but I've noticed successful women who don't want to date less successful men stay single by default.

Let's be real, of course there is a co-relation between mental illness and violence, but it has nothing to do with women with anxiety and depressive disorders. It's not about us, and posts like this only serve to distract from the dialog about how our society needs to prioritize mental health care.

That's what I was wondering. I know so many guys (my husband included) who make jokes about having an "open marriage" but would have a heart attack if the wife had a spring in her step.

As they get older, you will be able to see your old friends more often. I work and have two kids, I get it. There's nothing wrong with not being able to do all the mommy stuff-it's there for people who are looking for activities during the day when they are home with their kids. You are doing everything just fine.

Honestly, most of my problems have been due to the fact that I work, and most moms I know don't, at least not full time. Most of the time people watch their mouths but sometimes people let things slip and it can be really hurtful-like people are basically saying you are not as good of a parent because you have less…

I co-slept for 18 months with my older son until my lack of sleep came up in a performance review. Two nights of CIO later, my older son sleeps beautifully. I got a ton of judgement but none of those people offered to pay my bills so...

Yeah, but...

Too bad for me my husband doesn't conflate friendship with adultery.

Yeah I'm overweight but have no ass. I can't win for losing with these people.

Yeah, I'm a mom and a sexual being, but my kids don't need my ass on the cover of Paper. Not that their asking.

Yeah, I feel like this topic has brought out a lot of working mom shaming and we weren't even the ones who started this party.

What was she like before she had kids? I'm just curious. I'm a working mother and those women are the bane of my existance.

My children are an integral part of my life, but being a mother is not the core of my identity. I'm still the same exact person, except with a lot less time with my friends, which I deeply regret.

But wouldn't betrayal have to be something they did TO you, as opposed to something they just did that you didn't like?

It may be more like "can't" then "don't". I lost most of my friends after I had a kid, and believe me, I really would have loved to be able to spend more baby-free time with them, I just couldn't. It was a huge loss.