The Catch-22 of basing your identity around not having sex.

I dunno. As someone not in that community, it is interesting how they seem ostracize someone who is no longer being ostracized by women (i guess). Its like a group of blind people kicking someone out who suddenly started regaining their vision.

Don’t they understand he had no choice? Once a woman propositioned him, he was doomed: if he agreed, he would no longer be celibate, if he refused, he would no longer be involuntary...

Wikipedia: Crab mentality, also known as crab theory, crabs in a bucket mentality, or the crab-bucket effect, is a way of thinking best described by the phrase “if I can’t have it, neither can you”.

For you the day Kotaku posted an article about the Lebron James of inceldom losing his cherry it was the worst day of your life. But for the rest of us, it was Wednesday.

This is important: a guy had sex, every media outlet should be covering this.

spinning gifs were the height of civilisation. Look on my works ye mighty, etc.

I mean, I’m in my early 30s so I don’t know how much I can talk about how things used to be. I don’t think it’s confined to dating apps, thought. It’s all of life now. I think a lot of the current loneliness and isolation is due to the fact that it’s so much easier than it used to be. Back then, to be a proper…

I work with plenty of twentysomethings, and constantly hear of their relationship dramas. However, I can count on one finger the number of long-term relationships that have started via apps. And in that one case, they actually knew each other beforehand anyway.

You laugh now, but you share a species with these people. You have more in common with them than you do a worm, quietly keeping to itself, aerating and fertilizing the dirt around it, making the world a better place for the organisms surrounding it.

A lot of incels have crippling anxiety and self esteem issues. They need therapy not a forum full of like minded incels.

I don’t know, if you are like me and dated before it was taken over by apps, your view of what happens might be very much out of date. A lot of very negative social interactions have happened to both young men and young women when in comes to dating over the past 10 years. Both groups that are not in the highest…

It was already too late by then. They never should’ve opened up NSFNET.

It’s very weird that these dudes all talk to each other, and don’t listen to men that actually have sex and relationships with women. Or, god forbid, listen to women.

I hate to break the spell, but for others wondering:

What in the Elon Musk’s Twitter is going on here

Well, yeah - it’s Wednesay.

This is why the incel community will never start a movement and bring about change.

Kotaku has reached a new low today.