I am not surprised. But I also really wonder about the people on this show. I am not a great catch. I’m chubby, independent, and a pain in the ass for most people, yet I still found someone who chose to actually willingly spend time with me. What is deeply, fundamentally wrong with these people?

So, hey. I’m drinking this weekend. What are all of you doing?

I couldn’t watch the movie. I loved the book, and the movie was just so creepy in the fact that it really painted Wiseau as this harmless weirdo that was just misunderstood when he was actually really terrible and does some pretty scary stuff in the book. I couldn’t deal with the whole thing.

If it wasn’t your best friend, it would be someone else. Nothing lasts forever. One guy meets a girl and brings her into the group. A new guy starts hanging out with the group who is romantically interested in you. Just be happy that your Best Friend gets along with your friends. You don’t own the group. You don’t own…

I have a good friend who’s seeming to be at the end of coming out (she still tells others that she’s bi but has told me that she finds the idea of sex with men repulsive) and I think that this will help her. She’s having some trouble finding her identity and knowing that she’s not the only one who’s gone through this…

So, New Zealand basically completely shuts down for Good Friday. I would never in a million years have expected this. It was the one day we had to go to the wineries and they were all closed. Almost all the shops and restaurants were closed. It was nuts. So, yeah, holidays that are seriously NBD in the US may be way…

I feel like “startlingly” is not the right word for this situation. Perhaps “expectedly” or “obviously” would work better.

We visited in November and it was lovely. The light was so soft and diffuse the whole day. I’m also a super nerd and enjoyed visiting Snorrastofa and the Sagamuseum. Also - we did an Icelandic horse trail ride and that was really fun. The horses were so fluffy. And the Reykjavic zoo is really lovely and had great…

So, what about things like peppers, eggplant, Brussel Sprouts, carrots? Is there a good link to a list of what goes in high humidity and what goes in low humidity drawers?

I feel like this definitely falls into the “both sides are wrong” column. She does have security and jealousy issues (phrases that she belongs to him, suggesting that the young women at the beach are only in bikinis because they want to be ogled by her boyfriend, phrasing that she should be enough because of the…

So I had to do some digging, but this wasn’t a random tweet, it was part of a twitter thread about some bullshit conspiracy claiming that Valerie Jarrett was part of a CIA cover-up. I’m just posting this info in case anyone else was super confused as to why the hell Roseanne was posting about a former Obama adviser.…

Who the hell would want to drink something that intentionally tastes like activated charcoal? What the hell is wrong with people?!

I had someone make the “Muslims aren’t a race” argument to me to say they weren’t racist, so I said “fine. You’re a bigot.” I then proceeded to read him the definition of bigot every time he opened his mouth to argue. What an ass.

My mom kept her last name in the 70's. She and my dad are still married. I just got married and I’m keeping my last name for many reasons. Changing your last name is a lot of work, and if you have an established career, it will be confusing for people. You do what works for you, but don’t do it because you think you…

I really don’t understand getting married wearing a really sheer or really skimpy dress. I guess it’s because I assume that people get married with their elderly family members around and I don’t really want my fiance’s creepy uncle leering at my cleavage. But to each their own I guess? Also, I don’t have the figure…

My mom has done some expert witness testimony. She’s an expert in her field and is brought in to specifically talk about the thing she knows a lot about. The expert brought in on the other side tends to just have impressive credentials, high fees, and no real knowledge of the issue at hand or the specifics of the…

I know a lot of people on here are saying that ghosting is dehumanizing, but it really isn’t. No one owes anyone anything. It sucks, yeah, but dehumanizing? Is it also dehumanizing if you go up to speak to someone at a bar and they don’t talk to you? Don’t say hi when you randomly say hi to them on the sidewalk? Don’t…

I’m officially neutral on this. I’m a feminist. Proud of it. I don’t wear the branded stuff, and I roll my eyes when corporations try to sell it, but I also won’t judge people who choose to buy a t-shirt that says feminist. Feminism is about actions, not words, so that’s how I’ll judge people who claim to be…

Throwing themselves up at the mere thought of Rudy Giuliani

I dated a guy of south Asian decent (he grew up in Singapore) and he loved doing the Apu voice. Thought it was hilarious. That always rubbed me the wrong way, but then I realized that his joking about it just ties into the complex cultural fabric that is India and the Indian diaspora. He felt comfortable making fun of…