I use their Citrus sometimes. You’re right- they DO have good smells.

I recently lost my temper while attempting to explain to a male coworker why he couldn’t call our new vendor rep “Hot Gabby” (it was when he said it was merely to differentiate between her and another contact he referred to as “Black Gabby.” His ears might still be ringing, and my blood pressure is definitely still…

Ha! I love to wear men’s cologne. Viktor & Rolf Spicebomb is my jam. So that would be fine.

Also, can someone put it in a memo to guys that when women smile at them, it is not on its own an invitation to come over and harass them. Conditioning means that people might smile awkwardly if they catch your eye - guys, that doesn’t mean “ooh you’re so hot come and sex at me”.

You’re back!!!

I had a guy tell me he wanted to lick my back once.

I’m so sorry. I have a plan involving us relocating all the men to islands and just dropping off supplies via plane to keep that shit humane, but I worry that even without the men, women have internalized the lie that we are less valuable too much. Plus, then there won’t be any islands left for us.

No, it’s passive-egressive behavior. They are shutting women out as punishment for their colleagues’ not being allowed to do whatever they want to them.

But what about that sweet, sweet rape money? How do we get that? I was told there would be certain benefits to speaking out against sexual harassment and I’m just not seeing it. How’s a bitch supposed to get ahead?

As someone who is constantly being harassed at her work I wish men at my workplace would just implode.

One investor, who spoke anonymously with the NYT, says that a “big chill came across Silicon Valley” as stories about sexual harassment and assault at tech companies became public. They claimed that people were now canceling networking meetings and even casual coffee dates with women and minorities, because there is…

No, the way we feel about Trump is decidedly not how they felt about Obama. They felt like their country was dumping them and leaving them behind. We are concerned that Trump lacks the basic skills to govern and will start a nuclear war if he’s not talked down by grownups.

Also he fucks horses.

Right? What was his deal? Does he think he’s likely to get laid more often if more women LOVE Hugh Hefner? Was he making money by defending his memory or something? I just don’t get the super personal direction those responses seemed to take and it didn’t seem like a totally wholesome defense of a famous dead man.

I stay here a lot because it has nicer commenters. I guess I’m a Gawker refugee: Gizmodo is usually overwhelmed with techie bros who defend the Google memo guy as a “tells it like it is” blessing, Deadspin has “pro-wrestling is real” meatheads who just hate “SJWs.” I’m in the black at Splinter (I believe Splinter…

I 100000000% agree with this. But I also think there’s a difference between, “I hope you don’t mean me (because my ego couldn’t take it!)” and “I hope you don’t mean me because I’ve put a lot of effort into introspection and listening to women before I comment, but if I’ve still blown it, I’m willing to hear that and…

I actually contacted them via this link

Zukka, my dude. Just a heads-up. None of us are universally loved, here.

Well, if I was, I want to head it off at the pass. I’ve been reading through and other names have been mentioned but I want to be a welcome guest. I know I put up posts that garner harsh reactions but they are honest posts. Positive or negative, I love posting here.

I mean...you could always make a place to go (that’s what women, POCs, and queer folks have had to do this whole time!). Make a space for non-awful men. Enforce that men have to be not-awful. Reinforce it. The world will be better for it.