Less is more, but none is shunned.

I tried it on and looked like a porn star. No thanks. It must be terribly disappointing for men to take the Bombshell bra off and discover actual female breasts underneath.

My favorite Effie Brown story:

Sure, special preference should only be based on who your daddy knows or went to school with.The idea that success is based on merit is such a fucking myth.

...I’m also assumming you’re well traveled too which is a double-whammy. At least it is for me. Should have taken that money and got a boob job and hair extensions. I’d probably see more action.

Yeah, I’ve had men approach me, flirt with me, I flirt back, and when they ask where I went to school and I tell them, they’re like “Oh. Um, wow. You must be smart. OK, bye” and that’s that. I’ve had some version of that happen many times, starting back when I was in school and would meet people off campus. And when…

I never understand comments like these. Congrats on not caring. Plenty of people do. This comment adds nothing to the discussion other than trivializing the author’s stress and comes off as condescending.

I want to know the rate of white men interrupting men of color. I’m sure it’s a problem, but I haven’t seen it discussed.

Exactly. They’re all pure evil.

I can confirm that many guys I have been on one date with freaked out into insecurity when they asked where I went to college. Dude, I’m not judging you! I don’t care! Just be a nice, intelligent person....

That is so, so enragingly fucked up.

This. You have to marry IN law school to avoid this. JD/MRS.

Today I learned something new. I’ve had the exact opposite problem. Seems like all the women I meet are relatively uneducated. Not sure if it’s me or the area I live in. I’m too far from Philly and NY to try dating someone from there, but maybe close enough that most educated people around here flee to the cities. I’d…

One question about that study saying that people are increasingly choosing mates from a similar socio-economic class....isn’t that just because in 1960 women didn’t attend college at the same rate as men, and even if they did, they were unlikely to earn high salaries?

Yeah, I feel you...but this site seems douchey.

I’m not sure if they’d accept me, though. Only one of the three universities I’ve attended was elitist.

If you speak that phrase aloud, you’ll notice that it does include a pause which corresponds to the placement of that comma. It also serves to make clear that you can read the sentence as “The League was designed for people who hate dating apps, [and The League was designed] by people who hate dating apps.” So I think…

When I managed a Borders we were also responsible for this small calendar kiosk on the other side of the shopping center. I was there covering someone’s lunch break and this crazed woman came over demanding why we had no bichon frise calendars. The dog calendar people were always the weirdest.

I’m sad that “very-well educated” is a liability for women, apparently.

These things have been around forever. They’ve also been minimally successful forever. It seems like people try them out, look around, see there are only a couple dozen people in their area, maybe write to one or two of them, and then head back to the larger dating services where there are more people and they can do…