I think there's a difference between passively cheering on the guys and making a statement about your own experience. (In any kind of way, including "sexily".) The title says that these women "stand with IDF." That's not accurate. Israeli women are IDF.

Without taking a position on this, I think it's relevant to mention that all Israeli citizens are expected to serve 2-3 years of compulsory military service. Men and women. It's not unreasonable to presume that at least some of these women are current or former IDF members themselves. It isn't just a tribute to the…

God, I fucking love Nicki Minaj. I'm sort of into her music but damn, this is how you do performance art.

My question was a little bit different: what do you believe he was suggesting she "prepare her anus" for? In anticipation of what?

So then help me understand what exactly she is "preparing her anus" for?

You know that not all threats are criminal acts, right? There's no suggestion that he's committed a crime and what the "law says" is not relevant here.

I don't think anyone is acting like there was any criminal conduct here. "Threat" is not a legal term. If he'd said "I'm going to poison the food your children eat at school," I think we'd all agree that's a threat - even if it's highly unlikely that he intended to carry it out. Why is it different when he's…

But that is exactly my point. "Jokes" like this are dumb and tasteless in every circumstance. However, they cease to be jokes at all when they're just plain statements about things that really happen. Men commit acts of violence against women who criticize them. Boys on video games do not commit acts of genuine…

Yeah, guys - it was just a joke!

Dunno, how about keep going on dates and treating people well until you find someone you click with? Like the rest of us.

She and her husband paid taxes for years and will again. In those days, that was her money that other people were spending! That is how risk pooling works. One day it might be your turn and you'd probably be pretty resentful if every stranger on the street thought you were spending their money.

I am certainly not in the same position but when I quit my very high-paying law firm job for a nonprofit (a $100K pay cut), I kept my Lexus. I totally get it. I'd be much better off (financially) if I sold it - but that was true even when I had a fancy job.

That does depend on the state. Some (like California) don't allow tips to count toward the minimum wage requirement - but many other states do.

A good friend's son is about this age and such a liar. The other day he lied about something very obvious and his mom called him on it, "Julio, why are you lying to me? I was there and I know that it didn't happen." Without missing a beat, he said "Oh mommy, at school the teacher gave me rotten noodles to eat and…

Haha!

I like that my partner gets more turned on by nearly innocuous, everyday things instead of some of the stuff we've seen online. It feels very honest and sweet to me.

I've got a bangin' body and a JD from a top law school!

You can probably find them online, but it might be harder to find the little 3-packs.

One great thing about the Kimonos is that they're labeled "regular" sized so that's not a giveaway. Many adult shops have little 3-packs and it could be fun to buy a few to play around with? That way he could see how much they vary?

Maybe try a different condom? The Kimono brand "regular" size are slightly smaller than a Trojan. (My guy and I did a condom sampling early on in our relationship.)