I'm not the language police and I'm not gonna get into an arugment about who is allowed to say what and when but it is kind of a bummer to see that in the face of evidence that many of us have allowed pop culture and common use to pervert a once-powerful feminist slogan about sexual violence, reactions are so flippant…

I think that's a perfectly reasonable interpretation. It just doesn't surprise me that someone who got called out as being interested in this woman's vagina might take something like that the wrong way.

I think many of us here were raised after the development of this cultural touchstone. However, the history of the phrase is very clearly rooted in acquaintance rape advocacy. If people use it in other contexts of co-opt it for other causes, that's certainly not my business but here - in this context - it suggests…

Cool, maybe one day I'll have a wee-wee too.

Ok, I'm totally pro-vagina and pro-choice but for the sake of balanced discussion, I will say that my first read of this was that she was making a rape analogy and that's what people found offensive. Now, in my view, that's entirely appropriate in the context of discussing women's health and specifically the type of…

If you're American when you go in the bathroom and you're American when you come out; what are you while you're in the bathroom? You're a'peein!

I've read all the books and I won't spoil but Arya is my favorite of all the characters!

I'm about halfway through The Book Thief and loving it!

I have a thing for "old times" so I always fall for it. But it never works.

I say flip a coin.

Ugh, I know! I'm trying to eat the healthy snacks but I just want buffalo wings.

I say casual clothes and go all out with the hair and makeup.

$100: fruits and veggies (CSA delivery)

"Just lucky, I guess."

I like Gap Body. Comfy and cute!

You can usually block a number if you call your provider and tell them that you're being harassed. You can also assign a silent ring tone and text alert to a specific number so at least you don't see them come in.

I have one of those jobs where sometimes, you can't predict what's going to happen. I do my best to manage people's expectations and try to give as much advance notice as I can about my plans and let them know when I can't 100% commit to events. And if someone got angry at me for that, I don't think it would last…

Guess not cause there was kissing at the end of the night this time. He wanted to come inside but I wouldn't let him. Mostly because I'd stuffed my bra and there was no good way out of that.

I second the apple cider vinegar - it saved me when I had an apartment with really hard water. I thought my hair was ruined until one magical afternoon!

Ok - this dude took me out once before for what did not feel like a date (he wore a baseball cap the whole time, no touching, dinner only) and then asked me out again for tonight cause he has an extra ticket for a thing. I'm allowed to scope for dudes at the thing, right? He and I have mutual friends and they often…