Yeah, I'm trying to be understanding of him and what he's going through right now but I'm starting to think that we're just better suited to being friends - at least for now.

Put them in a paper bag!

You're right - those are good ideas. I don't really know what to do because I think those are all possibilities but right now, I'm not feeling up for it - and that's what I'm afraid of.

Yeah, I guess maybe I already know but I'm sad about it. We haven't closed any doors so maybe we'll just see what happens.

I completely agree with you. I just don't know what to do when we're cycling through these things (sort of) and we aren't even in love yet.

I'll eat anything that isn't trying to crawl away on its own. If it doesn't smell bad or look fuzzy, I say go for it.

It's pretty new but he's going through some heavy personal stuff right now so he's distracted a lot. I told him that because I get so many mixed signals from him, I don't feel emotionally secure. He said that he doesn't want for me to feel that way so there is that... but I'm not sure that I'm putting in the work…

I kiss my parents on the mouth. I'm 31.

Do you think that it's possible to regain The Feeling with a partner once it's lost? If my heart's not in it anymore, should we keep trying? I remember how it used to feel and I want that back but I don't know if it's possible.

I don't even know. Maybe it was just an off week? And I tend to go the other way - I prefer to be broken up with because I hate the second-guessing that comes after breaking up with someone. If I wait for him to do it then I don't feel responsible.

You guys - I had The Feeling with this guy and things just fell apart. I was afraid that I was losing the feeling after he really made a mess out of one of our nights but I thought I'd give it a chance and try to keep it simple. But the last three dates - not even any action either. The sex was great and I even tried…

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That body chain is hot and the woman who makes them is one of my best friends! It's practically like Rihanna and I were on the beach together, right?

Totally spot on. That's how you say "I'll fuck you up because I have nothing left to lose."

Ooh, that's a great cover! Thanks!

Yeah, it won't gross me out - I have a whole home surgery kit. But I'm afraid he's gonna think it's freaky if I offer.

I would never, ever offer if he hadn't mentioned that it was driving him crazy. Maybe it will bring us closer together? Maybe?

So the boy that I may or may not be dating was complaining that he's got a big pimple that he can't pop. On a scale of 1 to gross, how much of a turn-off is it if I offer to do it for him? It's kinda one of my hobbies...

Women in this country are safer walking out their front doors than they are walking in them.