MiloMinderbender
MiloMinderbender
MiloMinderbender

My little brother was released from jail yesterday and now he's living with me and I love him so much! He was too brown in the wrong neighborhood with the wrong friends but we managed to show the judge that keeping him out of school isn't going to help and I had to guarantee his return for his next hearing. He's so

@meenalives: Yay! I met a cute boy last weekend at a party and after facebook friending and emails, we have a date for tomorrow night.

Magazine subscriptions are always amazing if you know your giftee's interests. Just wrap up one issue and send in one of those subscription cards from inside.

@Descarada: I agree with you 100%. Especially since domestic work is one of the few avenues available to undocumented immigrant women. The work need not be exploitative if employers treat their workers with dignity and respect, paying a fair wage and doing what is within their power to protect them.

That's badass and I'm impressed. I come from a place where people frequently kill their own food so that part doesn't upset me but I didn't realize that bears were something that people hunted. Do you eat them? Are they a danger to the community? Or is it just for sport? Because that does bother me.

@allthingsshiny: And I hope no one underestimates the role that women play in some criminal organizations (motorcycle gangs, street gangs, organized crime). I have seen first hand that they can be just as brutal and calculating as the men. While many of them "earn" their way into the gangs through sex, others earn it

@snacktastic: I think that this is so often missed and not always in cases as obvious as domestic violence. The statements of "you're just like your dad, what are we going to do with you?" from grandparents and other family members when negative behaviors appear really cements those reactions and feelings.

I'm pretty sure that the DAs who knowingly prosecute innocent people or fail to turn over exculpatory evidence are worse than this guy.

Nuts, man. I was really hoping that this would be a movie about how having kids can be a real drag sometimes even when you love them a lot.

Whatever the rules are, I actually think the more important part is having a parent who is setting clearly defined boundaries and ensuring that this child is reflecting on her choices. That's a lesson that really does last - simple rules about hemlines, not so much.

@frazier.averylane: It wasn't perfect but I don't regret anything. I guess it helps that I never felt like I was "losing" something. I was in love, he loved me, we were together for another two years. I didn't tell him that I was a virgin the first time and I think I made the right call. The choice was entirely

@duetoprivacy: Best thing for a sty (but not pinkeye) is a warm hardboiled egg wrapped in a paper towel. It stays warm and you just nestle it in the corner of the eye for about 40 minutes at a stretch. Then you make a lot of egg salad.

@Black_Swan: Something that uses a first initial? T-Bone, F-Stop, etc.? I had a bf with the initials LMO and I still call him Elmo.

@redqueen: Maybe just ignore and if it ever comes up you can play it off like you stopped your texting plan to save money or something like that. Or your service is bad in your apartment and you're always missing texts. So you don't even have to acknowledge ignoring him - and he might think it's a waste to keep it

@RisaPlata: Maybe a friending plus a friendly message with a generic open invite to hang out? I think that I'm so obvious but people tell me that I'm not. At all.

If I facebook-friend the cool guy that I met at a friend's party and who sort of hinted at wanting to see me again and gave me a hug, is that enough of a green light for him to know that I think I might want to smooch him?

Dream and fantasy car? Money and the environment be damned.

@toe-to-toe: I hate to break the news but if he's ignoring your friendly emails, he's probably never going to pay you back. Depending on how much he owes you and how tight money is for you, it might be worth just cutting your losses and walking away.