Hey incel assholes:

Family courts are extremely biased towards fathers, who even when abusive get custody in most cases:

This is embarrassing but: I’ve realized that I don’t know how to to feed myself, in an adult, take care of your health way. I’ve been to therapy about disordered eating (EDNOS), and realized that my childhood was filled with restrictions and rules and shame around food and my body. I know a TON of info about nutrition…

yeah, I think that’s one of the greater overall problems - this was a civil suit, so she wasn’t eligible for state-sponsored representation, which pretty much puts her at the mercy of her accuser and his lawyers.

It’s almost like there is some middle ground between fan club president and actively not giving any shits about what your partner does.

Courts are the new vehicle to seek financial revenge on the have-nots. Our civil justice system really needs reform. These days, all someone needs to do is concoct a story. A person will need to speend $$$ defending herself, and the suer usually drops the suit just as it’s being proven merit-less.

Shelter Cat Update!

Talk to him about your needs, and if he’s unable to give you what you need or if you don’t feel you can be vulnerable enough to communicate your needs in the first place, then dump him. I know that’s easier said than done, and it’s easy to give that advice when your own feelings aren’t involved, but one of the few…

Did you two establish expectations around how much contact you both need? I did this early on when I started dating my SO because I was tired of male flakiness and figured if he was really into me he’d follow through (which he did). If not, maybe have that convo? Or dump him because honestly life is too short. If my…

“how do you deal with someone who gives you the silent treatment?”

Sounds like you’re kinda answering your own question. If you’re feeling like you’re getting tired of his behavior, listen to your instincts, yeah?

He had proposed twice during our time together and took it back twice.

Not only have you done the right thing, but you have waaaaaaay more than 10 more “good” years ahead! I know it’s rough, but realistically he wasn’t a good man - the fact that he would move mountains for others while only giving you a pick axe to move your own speaks volumes. Very proud of you doll! Now, time to find…

She didn’t know about it until she was arrested.

And having had much loss in my life and certain persons there for me in that time, I can definitely say that many of those relationships, though very short lived, were the most profound for me.

Reminds me of Nigella Lawson’s ex who used to say he preferred beans and toast to her cooking. Like, really dude?

I remember when I read about them bonding over both being widowed, I got a little worried about the whirlwind wedding they ended up in. I remember after getting divorced (much lesser trauma than a death of course), I hooked up quickly with a guy who had also recently been divorced, both of us having lost our partners…

I’m imagining the song titles being very specific:

I want nothing but the best for Adele, but this Simon person always seemed a little ... hmm.

A person can’t check themselves in to a mental health facility voluntarily? We’ve made great progress fighting the stigma surrounding mental health issues, can this “countess” please not try to drag us back to the middle ages with her bs?