My husband is a foot taller than me, no way is that shit gonna work.

Meh. I kind of hate it too. I like giving pleasure and I really like receiving pleasure, but combining the two makes it hard to fully concentrate on either. Also tends to be hard on the neck and the back.

It can be nice for a moment or two, but then someone has got to take over, it's just not possible to match up parts so perfectly and to maintain both concentration and enjoyment in that position.

I hate the shit out of 69.

Can I just say how much I ****ing love this show?

Every character is awesome. The tension is expertly applied, it's shot beautifully, the stories - both overarching and self-contained - are brilliantly done.

Just tell me what day/time ABC is airing it and I'm there.

The wavelength one is huge, especially when kids are involved. I am constantly amazed at how we are in sync on so many issues, especially around the kids. When I was dating I eventually boiled my litmus tests (you know that list of things that we think we want in a partner) down to two things: how do they handle dogs…

He never thinks of me or my needs, which I find odd because I know for a fact he's madly in love with me.

I hear you regularjane, but not everyone is up for that. I have been in a long-term relationship that's been essentially sexless for several years. Not acceptible for me, I felt a lot of guilt about it, what did I do, how could I fix it, etc. Plus other ish that I worked on but he could only go so far with. My…

You can love someone and they can love you; but if their love isn't manifested in the way you need to be loved, is it worth it? Are you settling for love instead of mattering to someone? They don't always go hand in hand.

Selfishness is a real dealbreaker. If this is someone you want to spend your life with it's got to be someone who shares stuff with you, chores, time, affection, thoughts, intimacy. These are all things to be shared, and I don't think a selfish person can really do that. If you have to prompt them all the time, that…

They are the best couple in the history of the world. I want them to be in love in real life.

I think it's ok to find your friends annoying. At least for me, otherwise I would have no friends. But with friends, you only see occasionally, with a partner, whom you live with and see on a daily basis, it's really important to not want to punch them in the throat on the regular.

You want someone who knows that the water bill comes quarterly, that the car needs to be taken for a service soon and that the blue bin goes out for plastics recycling every other Tuesday.

It's nice to hear that. It's too easy to buy into the "if he's the one you'll always be happy" crap and remember that ever human is annoying as shit. The one you love is just less so lol.

"You're the least annoying person i know." That really is a great thing to hear from someone you love. I think a relationship can be worked on if two people fall out of love. If you work hard enough, maybe you can get back what ye had. But if two people fall out of liking each other, well, that's the end of the…

Penny,

I'm not sure I'm in a place to help, having only been with my guy for ten years. But I will say, my mom, whose been with my dad for 40 years now, said she feels similar things. So this is my perspective but also one my mom shares, and she's been married and had kids and gone through the whole deal with all of the ups…

I had a similar arc as yours. I'd married young to a wonderful guy, and then in my early 30s I panicked because I thought I'd somehow missed the boat on the whole mind-blowing sex and romantic kisses in the pouring rain thing. Of course, the "passionate" guy I jumped into the arms of came with a heaping helping of…

Thanks for being brutally honest with this as people have a tendency to shame someone in your situation without really considering the larger picture. I appreciate that you recognize that your ex would be happier with someone who was in love with him, as opposed to someone who loved him. I'm someone who has not been…