who the fuck is anyone here to say "X wedding is better than your wedding."? God almighty, don't like big weddings don't have one. Just because you did/didn't have a big/small wedding doesn't make you any better or smarter than anyone else. People do what works for them. Shut up about it and go get a hobby.

Did the author ever deal with the wide swaths of facts she just decided to skip?

Rape is a crime of power, not sex. Lena's own admissions of her treatment of her sister through the years is controlling, manipulative with sexual overtones. So how is it not sexual abuse just because, for all we know, Lena wasn't sexually aroused when she was doing these things?

Forget searching Twitter, just search the Jezebel comments.

so are you breaking this story into parts in order to milk coverage of it? Because you wrote a lot of stuff but missed MOST of the story here....

Soon as her show gets yanked, as anyone else's would have at this stage. But then with her ratings it'll be gone sooner rather than later anyway.

Thank you! Jezebel is ignoring a pattern of sleezy Lena behavior because Lena is the Jezebel ideal. Which is bad enough - she is a boring rich talentless white chick who capitalizes on the perpetuation of millennial feminists as sociopathic chic hippies. I've honestly been waiting to see Jezebel's remarks on this and…

I don't think this video helped the Hollaback campaign as much as they wanted. Loathe as I am to say it, some of the commenters (ugh) had a point in that many people in this video are not harassing her, they are greeting her. If we start treating comments like "Good morning!" as harassment because we don't want to…

So is the non-racist solution to show only those Africans receiving top-knotch care and ignore the suffering poor? Because I think the writer would be up in arms over that racism too.

This just makes me think of all those girls I knew when I was younger who would tell me (and anyone who would listen) "I'm just not friends with girls. I don't get girls, I don't have any female friends." I rolled my eyes then and I roll my eyes now. Also I always thought those girls seemed really desperate. Even more…

Up until the abortion crap its a nice post. Blaming evolution for Nazism is pretty idiotic, but otherwise she touches her faith and the horror of the holocaust in a personal way. It makes the idiocy of the evolution and pro life digs even more painful - she could have made a touching reflective post about something…

I feel so sorry for her, that she has to become wank-off material for strangers in order to feel beautiful or confident.

None of these seemed really extreme to me. Nothing seems to touch the level of weird from Alicia Silverstone's book about parenting right. Also, how can you say you're parenting 'right' when you have a two year old? For all you know, you're raising the next big serial killer!

Uh also I'd like to see more thought and effort into it than a gender swap.

Really can't wait for my new AC to get to my house. I ordered it days ago, come on Amazon!

So there's a disorder now that is going to make this okay? It's not her fault that she did this terrible thing because her partner made her do it?

Honestly I just bought two Miss Manners books. After being on the Knot for about 2 months trying to plan my wedding I realized I know jack all about, well, etiquette.

Less than kids or a house.

Weddings don't HAVE to cost much of anything.

I didn't move in with him until I was engaged.