thank you - it's all good now. :)

like Facebook wall? He's not on there. His brother is; I've considered contacting him. Then realized how creeperish it made me.

Meh, I learned a lot. Married a not-asshole! Actually, experiencing Fuckslug made me change all my timid bullshittery when it came to relationships; next guy was most decent man I've ever met. And he was ALL about the condoms, up til marriage. Said he was doing "his part." Knew he was a keeper.

I did trust Fuckslug, unfortunately. I was on the pill and insisted on condoms. Because SAFER SEX. He played my emotions, and I caved. He was older than me too; I was mid twenties and he was mid thirties. I wanted to be safe, so we went together and got tested for everything; both of us came up clean. A year later,…

oh good times. Bonding over finding out about dad's girlfriend. Glad I'm not the only one with a fun adultery childhood memory.

I didn't "catch" him. However, I caught chylmadia and HPV (low risk kind) from the dirtbag. Found out about 3 months after the breakup; we had been tested for STIs together, at my insistence, because he didn't want to wear a condom. I thought I was being so grown up. In hindsight, I'm lucky. What a fuckslug. And…

Thank you! She's in the "smell the farts" acting school, courtesy of Joey Tribiani.

The example in the piece clearly states the kid said, "I want the pink sippy cup, not the blue!" and the parent's face "whitens" - implying the toddler's tone was temper tantrumy. So - you missed the point. And - my child is NOT my partner. She is a wonderful, amazing small person who really wasn't born…

Are you deliberately missing her point? The example you picked isn't about choice. The parent already poured the milk, so next time give them the option. Scrambling to switch to a new cup once the milk is poured is just ridiculous. It teaches a child that they can DEMAND a different cup, without asking or saying…

I'm around teenagers. Boys do not know what rape is. They think it the masked guy hiding in the bushes. They watch porn, Telly, videos where girls play "hard to get." We've all learned this in our culture. After that dude, I learned to say "no" about 3 steps earlier then I was ready to really stop. Because I knew…

Wow, so much hating on this book. I thought it was an amazingly entertaining read. Flynn pulled off an interesting structure - unlikeable main characters who I still wanted to read about. I thought it was a fun, tongue in cheek look at the "cool guy" and "cool girl" facade when empty people get together. It…

And I don't know to this day if he even realized what he did was wrong. I certainly never let myself think about it. Ugh. Sorry for what happened to you, me, all the other victims out there.

There are many pros for the couple, but it s inconvenient for many guests. Travel/hotel rooms are more expensive during holiday weekends. I've been in two "holiday weekend" weddings, and at both there were distinct grumblings from many guests. In the end, nbd - if it's too expensive, I say just don't go.

yeah, I noticed that too.

I had almost the exact same experience when I was 19. And my response? To make him my boyfriend so that meant the part of me that thought it was wrong could justify what happened. 20 years later, it is called rape. 20 years ago, it was definitely my fault, at least in my head. Have you seen the Amy Schumer bit…

I love how this mom was able to keep her serious mommy voice and hold the camera still without shaking with laughter. Good consequence too - no sweets all day b/c sweets were stolen? Perfect justice!

I guess we run in different circles. Enjoy your gummy bear flavor, you're an adult. Please though, be open-minded about how well-documented early brand loyalty with kids is created through sweeting and sexing products up. You might want to check for some "distain" in the public health community, which studies this…

I'm assuming you are the doctor for the BABY, correct? I just want to say as a mother, I truly TRULY appreciated my pediatrician's follow-up when I received a "perfect" (as in perfectly horrifying) score on one of those PPD surveys at a pediatrician's appointment, maybe 2 weeks after birth. I assured the doctor and…

thanks!

Um actually - yeah. Enjoy though.