I don't know. I have a friend who's considered a cruel bastard because he's dumping his gf because she has no motivation. Her family is fairly educated and she just doesn't seem interested in moving up at work or getting more of an education. He's talked with her until he's been blue in the face. All of their friends…

People who fill in blanks and are oversensitive. Hell, I'm a black male and I've had a black woman tell me to get a job. Do we need to act that culturally isn't something that happens. Yeah, there was no eye rolling or anything.