We should be grateful he doesn’t know how to use the camera on his phone, guys. You know he’s not far away from tweeting out pics of Don Jr.

“SPECIAL COUNTRY, SPECIAL PLACE!”

Yeah, real special when you’re hammering on with the longest government shutdown in history and people can’t afford to pay their rent or mortgage, yet a wall is supposed to be their safety net. *eyeroll of the year*

It’s really quite simple.

It appears that they are treating the incident as a sexual assault, a felony crime.

Great questions. In our attempt to not ‘kink-shame,’ do we unwittingly condone violence against women? Also, can something be considered a ‘kink’ when it is actually so widespread and mirrors normative disenfranchisement? Is an onscreen degradation of another human being always to be considered innocuous? Or do these…

and this type of “sex” aka rape is being normalized to women and girls and men and boys who watch this shit. 

Look, I’m not going to judge people on what gets them off or choose to do. But the fact is, porn is becoming increasingly violent towards women. Even if it’s consensual, and if that is what directors and performers want to do....the women participating NEED to be protected. A checklist isn’t going to do jackshit if in…

I talk to my male from ends about this. They all deny watching porn where the woman seems uncomfortable and I deeply believe they are lying. 

Do we ever speak of the consumer end of this? The audience for humiliation, violation and abuse? What does this say about us as a whole? How do we change? Where is our responsibility?

a standard industry practice in which a performer typically says on-camera that everything that happened in the shoot was consensual before receiving their paycheck. “I said that everything went fine and I had a good time,” she said in a text. “But I was holding back tears because you don’t get paid if you say you…

Holy shit I didn’t realize they had to go through a consent video before getting paid.  That’s revolting. 

And it’s not like not being able to get a boner is literally painful. It’s embarrassing as hell, to say nothing of disappointing, but it’s not literal excruciating pain.

Yeah but insurances don’t balk at covering it the way they do anything related to vaginas and women’s ability to have sex. 

I went through a really painful few years when sex with my husband was agony. I didn’t understand why, since I’d never had that problem before. But it just burned — every time. It was a difficult time for he and I, because I was afraid of sex, and he was afraid of hurting me.

Thanks for writing this. Sex has been painful for the past 5, 6 years or so. I contributed it to endometriosis - but my gyno says that’s under control. I am a chronic pain patient though, so maybe the two are linked? It just really really sucks because I’m single and the threshold to have sex with someone new has…

Maybe because literally none of that is true. As usual.

Ithink we all know it’s not his mother he wants to fuck.

Oh come on.

This is my jam. I have painful intercourse that is primarily caused by a fissure that keeps re-tearing. I have had the thought that I am "too small". I have yet to find a gynecologist to successfully help me in stopping the problem. At this point it may be psychological as well, in that I'm unknowingly clenching or am…