You actually can still fantasize about him, you know. He's out now not tragically disfigured in a freak accident at the nuclear facility which will turn him into a superhero overnight oh wait there I go again.

But the power dynamic between a commanding officer and a soldier makes it such that sex between the two can never really be consensual. Much like a teen and a teacher, IMO. Thanks for changing the headline but the url is still problematic.