You should definitely do that!

When I was on okcupid (before I met my sweetheart), I always immediately dismissed everyone who answered yes to that question....and I'm a person who shaves my legs every day! It would be one thing if it said "do you prefer the person you're dating to shave their legs" but it's creepy and weird to say all women are…

There is also a question about what "wherefore" means (as in, wherefore art thou Romeo). You would not believe how many people say it means "where," including someone who is now dating one of my good friends. Not as bad as the earth and sun thing, but still pretty bad.

Why would you ever encourage someone who doesn't want kids to have kids? Plenty of people who don't want kids have them and they make terrible, terrible parents. There is nothing selfish about knowing you don't want to take care of a child, even if your reasons are you want to drink margaritas all day on the beach. In…

Your problem is that you think it's okay to be "for" or "against" homosexuality. There is nothing to be for or against. Someone else's sexuality is not something you have a say in and just because someone who is gay acts in a way that you don't think is acceptable, it's not okay to paint every single gay person with…

Yay for veggie posts! I never thought of making a veggie turkey with yuba. I can't wait to try it.

Everyone knows we vote for the one with the most sensible shoes.

You have to do something because you're the one with a problem with the system. If you truly think that how the restaurant system works is not right, then stop patronizing businesses that perpetuate a system that you disagree with and you think are exploiting their employees. Especially when you know that you not…

Tipping is NOT supposed to be about rewarding good service. In the United States, tipping 15-20% is expected because workers get paid far below minimum wage (a law which can only exist because it's the expectation that tipping is the norm). It's not just something extra like in Europe; it's an expectation and how…

I can't even think about this because I'm such a nervous wreck about it. I'm going to have an ulcer by the time this election is over.

The problem is that there isn't always common ground. If I think gay people deserve all the same rights as straight people and someone else thinks we don't, there isn't any common ground there. One of us is trying to restrict the rights of other law-abiding citizens for no reason other than bigotry and one of us…

I can't say I understand proposals either. Maybe it's because I'm gay and so I've never had this Prince-Charming-down-on-one-knee idea of marriage or maybe it's because my parents were never into anything like that (no proposal, no engagement ring, just a small wedding), but I still don't get it. My girlfriend and I…

I'm going to speak for all lesbians when I say that you should paint your nails any colors you want.

I'm a major homo and I have never heard of this. Maybe it's because I don't use tumblr and even though I'm the girliest looking girl ever, I've never identified as femme, but, honestly, everyone I know who does this is a straight girl. And it's ridiculously common...like 80% of the straight girls I know do it. I don't…

How wrong is that I totally want to call lesbian sex a "pastry party" now? I mean, it's kind of an awesome euphemism.

Those super sharp nails terrify me too. Plus, as a lesbian, every time I see them, my vagina screams in horror and then runs and hides.

Don't ask him to help you move? Help moving is pretty much the only reason I have friends.

"It just seems like you are giving out information that people don't really need unless they are trying to initiate a sexual relationship with you. What point is there to telling my friend of twenty years by telling her that I like men? Are we suddenly going to become some level above just normal friends? Super…

I'm a gay girl, so I'm love breasts and outfits, but I'm way more obsessed with Pam's clothes than her boobs too. My lord, that outfit was amazing. When I was watching I was mentally assessing where I could wear a sweetheart necklined, collared corset, because I need that outfit. And that red corset she wore a few…