Seriously. That bothered me too. Furthermore, abortion is an action that someone makes a decision to do, it occurs once, and then is over. Being gay is part of who we are every day of our lives. Not talking about one medical procedure you had is in no way similar to hiding who you love for your entire life.

Wow. Parents like this terrify me and I count my blessings everyday that my parents didn't raise me this way. You're going to fuck up your kid if you can't learn to relax.

I think this whole suit is pretty stupid because you should have sperm tested for STIs before using it no matter how much you trust the guy, plus there nothing to stop people from using the old turkey baster method without involving the government, but all the people saying "duh, have sex with the guy" is really…

Not a man doing it, but I had an ex-girlfriend who pulled the "I know, I suck. I'm sorry" card ALL.THE.TIME. It was awful, because I loved her, so I didn't want to say "yeah, you kinda do suck," even though she totally did suck. Plus she truly did have monumentally low self-esteem so it ended up making me feel guilty…

With blood bans, they only ban blood from people who have participated in what is considered risky behavior. There is very little risk of spreading HIV through woman to woman sex; therefore woman to woman sex is not a risky behavior. The bans are not based on vulnerable populations and they don't ban based on a…

THE WORST. I hate every minute of it

What I'm trying to say is that those crazies are not representative of feminism. Which is exactly what I did say in every response. They aren't feminism and they aren't common in feminism. I never said "no one has ever said that in the history of the world." I said I can deny them because a few crazies are not…

The reason I can deny that they exist is because they are in no way representative of feminism and, although there are a few crazies out there, they mostly exist in urban legend as a way to deter people from taking feminist seriously. As you said, it's a misconception because it's not fucking true. I don't think…

Yes, I do deny women like that exist. Perhaps there are a handful of crazy people out there who think that, but that is not feminism and has nothing to do with the feminist movement. If there are those crazy people out there, they are not in any way representative of the feminist movement. I've heard more than a few…

Just because lesbians don't sleep with men doesn't mean we have "little use" for them. I interact with men every single day of my life. Every lesbian I know does, because men are 50% of the population. I have male friends, coworkers, family members, neighbors etc, etc. Being a lesbian and/or being a feminist has…

One way I've always thought to keep costs down was a potluck wedding. I went to one when I was a child, but barely remember it (I do remember thinking it was awesome though). I've always wanted a wedding where, in lieu of presents, people would bring food and drinks. My girlfriend says no, absolutely not under any…

I admit, I've never seen or read any of the Twilight stuff, but I'm surprised how cheesy and low-quality this looks. If I didn't know it was a gazillion dollar franchise, I would think this was the trailer for one of those guilty-pleasure "supernatural" shows from the 90s, like Hercules, Xena, or Charmed.

I have super broad shoulders too. That plus the rack means I have never fit in a button down shirt in my entire life and most things only zipper up to the bottom on my shoulder line. I'm sure you know what I'm talking about!

I wish!

Can't argue with facts!

I must not be a very good lesbian because I have plenty of breasts to speak of. And people speak of them all the time. Cause they're spectacular.

As long as you only use their name once or twice in a conversation, I think it's cool and people appreciate that you remembered their name. However, I do know a guy who will use your name in nearly every sentence, which I imagine is a memory technique, and it is seriously freaky. I introduced him once, for only a few…

I don't know if it's because I don't care about their name, because I hate not remembering people's names. I think for me it's because, even though I'm fairly comfortable talking to strangers at this point in my life, introducing myself to a stranger still has a momentary pang of "Oh shit, social anxiety,…

Likewise. I love drinking as much as the next person, but if you need alcohol or any other substance to relieve stress, something is wrong.

The whole "hater" thing baffles me to no end. I'm sure that someone in the world hates me, but I honestly can't think of anyone off the top of my head, yet I see people all the time saying things all over facebook such as "haters always trying to keep me down," "keep hating, you're making me stronger," and "haters are…