Haha, I had the exact same thought. What a thing to be known for!

Okay, but have you ever actually tried to file charges? No? Then you have literally NO IDEA how terrifying/offensive/degrading/retraumatizing that process can be. Which is very. Literally the only woman I even know of who successfully filed charges was Alice Sebold, and she specifically wrote in her memoir Lucky that…

Maybe most creeps are on the DL. But a lot of men are confronted with sexist, rapey shit all the time and don’t say shit. This is what the author is talking about.

Three things.

Educate yourself. Read survivor testimonies. Notice how they all feature the same phrases;

Dude you’re fine. Don’t let a few people’s passion and desire for everyone to fix everything now discourage you. You posted in an attempt of solidarity and to say that you’ll do better. Getting shit on for that isn’t fair. Their anger isn’t about you specifically, nor was your post making it “all about you”. Do…

Problem solved, heheh! Seriously, what a weird thing for them to get hung up on. “Hey no fair, I don’t belong on this list - - I only sent my secretary dick pics every day, I didn’t rape her!”

You just keep blaming the victim. There is nothing else for me to say. You can be the toughest, hardest woman out there but if you can’t empathize then you can’t see my point. This discussion is over.

Or, why don’t YOU say to the guy he’s wrong?

It’s often difficult for men to get a sense of the violation, the domination, the violence that can so easily become a part of sex. So men: imagine what things would be like if, in 10% of sexual encounters, things ended with the woman cutting your junk off with a hunting knife. That would change the game drastically,…

But it’s just a warning. Women can ignore it if their experience with a particular person is different. It simply allows them to be on their guard for a particular issue when they interact with that man.

Huddle up other Black men,

More than one woman has been killed for refusing a man’s advances in public, so try that on someone else you coward ass bastard. Please, by all means, keep being silent. Keep racking up excuses that make you sound like a white person.

Thank you. I’m remembering when I was drugged and raped in college and my women friends at the time calling me a slut. I’m remembering my husband a few years later, now my ex, hearingme recount the horror and blaming me, slut-shaming me repeatedly about it. I’m remembering that after telling my friends and being…

Who is going to mitigate the (much, much larger) problem of false negatives? Women need to be protected from men who would do them harm. This concerns half the population, but does not get half the concern. Sorry buddy, but women are getting a small taste of someone finally getting their due, and we want more. It’s…

Yeah, I’m so confused. People are trying to blame Weinstein on his victims for not publicizing their ordeals, but women coming forward about other men is now bad. Hmmm, ok?

I hear you Natalie, loud and clear.

“So what is the “Shitty Media Men” list for? Is it for justice or for catharsis? As it stands, it provides neither. If women who have been sexually harassed or abused want justice, they should pursue judicial channels. If the incident is criminal, they should report it to the police; if it’s something that occurs at…

No proof, not story? Ronan Farrow had plenty of proof and nbc news still wouldn’t run the Weinstein story.

At least yo are honest. Thank you.