LeelahJames
LeelahJames
LeelahJames

1.) How do you get to inbox (0)?
2.) How do you fit in a personal life with all your professional work? Do your friends/family/colleagues give you shit if you have to say "No" to something, or just want to be left alone?
3.) While I know that it's important to never say never, is there a professional line that you will

I agree with you but...for the TRAILER? For the full-length movie premiere, yes. But just the trailer?

Summa y'all are laughin' WAY too hard. I mean, what's so damn funny?

Girlfriend went IN.

Earlier this year, I got bangs and a trim for the first time in years. Yeah, I was a little nervous, but the stylist knew what she was doing.

As long as they come well-regarded, and you've taken good care of your hair, I think you'll be fine.

I cut my own hair in college. I thought I looked like Pink, but with missing patches.

That's why I'm successful.

Actually, I really like Lululemon. I have a pair of running shorts from them that I really like. I'm a typical pear shape with heavy legs, and I was interested in a pair of biker shorts for the summer. I grew up at a time when bikers fell mid-thigh. Now, biker shorts fall just short of the ass cheek.

However, Lululemon

I can relate. I was an overweight teen, and lost a lot of weight one summer. I had to go from wearing those big, free t-shirts and big sweatpants from the thrift store until I got to about a size 8. Those heavy clothes cover you, but they eventually get weighed down in sweat, and are not as comfortable.

Under Armour, Nike, or Athleta.

I have one as well. Yet, I don't expect it to look "flattering," which is a very subjective idea. I do expect it hold down my breasts (yes), not ride up when I'm jogging or dancing (yes), and acts as something to wipe my forehead (yes). Sometimes clothing, especially workout gear, serves a function regardless how how

Can you repost this up a little higher? There's a thread up there where several people claim that because they're middle-aged, that they're glad they don't get harassed as much, leading some to think that somehow makes you invisible to being harassed. This is a helpful reminder that you cannot age your way out of

Sometimes, just getting into an offensive stance gives one a better chance at not being harassed. If you see an individual or a group of men getting ready to say something, yeah the loogie works. But what also works is saying "Hello," or "Good Day." in another language. Or being overzealous and loud in your greeting,

When you see this and the woman is not interested or clearly insulted, please speak up.

But often I want to ask these men: Is pissing off 100 women that day worth the one woman who will just give you a phone number?

Because receipt of a number doesn't guarantee anything. She still may refuse to pick up. Or even better (or worse) give your name and number to the local police for harassment.

I've been sexually harassed by straight men, gay men, and gay women. It all feels uncomfortable and unwanted. Namely because it all seems to come from the same place for them.

Without stumbling over the word "objectification, I've actually responded to street harassers by saying, "It hurts my feelings to be reduced to a body part."

Every time that happens, I just say, "I don't owe you a smile."

Don't use logic. Street harassers are like public trolls. They see harassment as "flirting, and your logical response as "engaging."