When I was 16, I had a male intern perform a rough, rushed pelvic exam seven days after I’d had a caesarean. I had mastitis; my breasts were bright red, swollen, and radiating heat, but he decided I must have an abscess. I had a fever of 105 and was barely coherent. All I really knew was a man was suddenly between my…
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Not quite. There weren’t stones but there was “sludge” and some kind of structural issue that caused the same kind of pain. It was incredible how painful it was—I’ve been told by someone who’s experienced both that it’s worse than childbirth by a lot.
Very true.
I had a similar discussion with an obnoxious uncle at a family event. Talking with a distantly related female relative about 40 years older than me who had recently had her 1st grandchild, when discussing the birth she mentioned that it was great there was so many female obgyns nowdays. I said I have never and would…
I had a health meltdown a few years ago that ended up being a diseased gallbladder and not one but two intestinal parasites. The two male doctors I saw were CONVINCED it was STI-related (do you know of an STI that causes pain in the upper right abdomen after eating and diarrhea? No? Me neither) and did their very best…
The good news is that the nurses, those jealous old ladies with loose vaginas, were there to complain and protect their patients. It reminds me of when I went into the university health center with severe stomach cramps and the doctor, a resident in his 20s, insisted that he needed to do an immediate pelvic exam. I…
Oh god. I’m sorry. Ugh. Barf.
Well, I can articulate why it appeals to me: it shows this tragic story of an inordinately wealthy, privileged family that not only fell out of riches and relevance, somehow they became deranged squatters/hoarders living in derelict conditions. Their house had no heat, electricity, or running water. They were eating…
Woah, Peter Beard is dreamy. And Jackie’s sister Lee is a knockout.
Yeah so I saw this guy once in undergrad. He made the exact comment about “tightness” to me and acted like my vagina suctioned his fingers. Shudder.
Buried among all the reporting is that Tyndall’s supervisor, who is now dead, apparently protected him for years.
The fact that THAT is his defense should be enough by itself to revoke this asshole’s medical licence because he clearly knows nothing about gynecology.
i noped out at creamy - i don’t need that in my life.
“Dear Vanessa, on this Valentaine’s day, I’d just like to say ‘hey great, thank you. I don’t want to deal with anything right now.’”
It also sounds like he doesn’t know as much as he should about female anatomy and orgasms:
Are you the guy in the background, Don Jr., the woman barely in frame, or the coffee cup?
“There was a lot of stuff on our plate”
Much like when Don Jr. said he would “love, honor, and cherish” Vanessa, it’s just something you say at the time. Doesn’t really mean anything, other than “too busy right now, brb.”